Why are male standards shamed?

If a man has standards saying he wants a non promiscuous woman he’s met with ‘insecure’ and hateful opinions by women.

Yet when women coming with their absurd requirements they aren’t held accountable or criticised.
Why can’t men have harsh standards too?

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Why are male standards shamed?
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