⁉️Why are male standards disrespected?

[Anonymous]

While female standards are respected.

If a man just says he wants a women to cook, clean and be submissive he’s met with criticism

whereas

A woman can say she wants a tall, handsome rich man isn’t criticised really despite her delusions.

It’s a matriarchal society seen as women are able to do this. They’re able to tell us we’re wrong for wanting fair things.

I disagree with you

I agree with you

[DarkLegacy]

It is feminist nonsense and hypocrisy again. Women are allowed to have standards and if we don't meet them then there is something wrong us and we are demonized and abused for it. We then get that also if we have standards. It is because women think so highly of themselves and think that men should count their lucky stars just for getting the woman.

Us men should have standards and should settle for nothing less, if a woman does not match up to those standards then we can always pump and dump or use her as a stop gap girlfriend.

[Zenpanda]

Read what you wrote again.
Notice how those "standards" place the woman in a lower position than the man?
The woman wants physical appearance and financial stability in your example.
The man wants a woman to serve him in your example.
You might as well hire a live-in maid.

[_Maya_]

While your opinion is absolutely spot on... this guy isn't going to listen to it. He has had hundreds of accounts and whines about this same thing every time.

[Zenpanda]

Oh I knew that by the way he wrote it. But I'll still give my opinion on the matter, because others will read this too.

[_Maya_]

That's fair and worth it for others.

[Dongie]

What if the man wanted that financial stability and fine body. Isn't his body going to pleasure her and in luxury?

[Zenpanda]

If a man wants the same qualities in a woman as a woman wants in a man it wouldn't be disrespected unless the person judging is a hypocrite.
As for bringing pleasure with one's body, that is a cyclical concept. You enjoy and find pleasure in eachother and more often than not the man gets more pleasure than the woman, because in general men are selfish in that area.
Luxury is a thing yes and if that's what a woman wants without working herself, than taking care of the house would be fair. But then it's not disrespect but an exchange of roles that you chose.
However words as submissive throw that dynamic out the window.
You can want a housewife if you're the provider. However you'll have to respect that that's work too. A woman isn't working for you but for the both of you, just like you are by providing the finances needed.

[Dongie]

So as long as the man wants the same as the woman, it's OK? Got it.

[Baial]

@Zenpanda

Lol liberal cuck. Learn how evolution works and realise why most marriages don’t work

[At3mis24]

It's freaking in 2024 men wants women to be slaves! No no no, I will NEVER get married, that's definitive!

[Zenpanda]

@Baial your use of "liberal cuck" is already enough to tell me you're a sad excuse for a man, but one positive, you yourself openly announce the fact that women should avoid you. So that's nice.

[Dongie]

@Baial But its your kind of man who performs with the woman while the cuck watches. It's simple arithmetic. 9 is a bigger number than 4.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Wealth is a quality. He's already made his fortune, now it just sits in the background. If she wants a rich man, she is picturing someone who has nice things, not someone who does things for her. t's not a demand.

Submission is a demand. If you want a submissive woman, you want someone who will do what you ask, when you've asked for it. It is an active request that must be fulfilled daily, unlike wealth which has already been earnt.

These aren't the same.

[tomboy2003]

Because we are not maids or slaves. Cooking or cleaning are basic survival skills. If you don’t know how to do these things or don’t want to or can’t , I’d assume you either want a maid not a wife, or you are disabled or you are retarted. By wanting submissive women, you bring power imbalances into a relationship. Fuck this shit.

[MzAsh]

Both standards you mentioned are pretty delusional.

[Taylor22424]

He said "disrespected".

[BoopBoopBeep]

I used to be a sous chef. She doesn't have to cook as well as I do but if she expects me to make every meal until the end of time then she can find another man for that noise. Cooking is a basic life skill like showering.

[Dongie]

Have her change the oil in the car and mow the yard.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Dongie I get free oil changes at the dealer and I live in the forest so not much to mow. Weed eating, sure, but I can usually get the groundhogs to take care of 50% of that. She can help with the gardening.

[Dongie]

Well alright then. One for the guys.

[Dongie]

Do you mind, what is a sous chef? Asian foods?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Dongie I was the number 2 in the kitchen under the executive chef.

[At3mis24]

No, it's not a basic life skill! In France, we doesn't learn it like in Japan! And I will never ask my parents for that, they're not good at cooking!

[At3mis24]

And like Nellie Oleson, I hate to cook! Fortunetely, restaurants and Uber Eats are for me!

[BoopBoopBeep]

@At3mis24 Horrible waste of money and health.

[Hanrej]

Well simply put their dream man coincides with what every man dream to be. Like, what man doesn't dream of being rich? influencial? Powerful?

The male dream wife is that of a slave practically, someone who does most if not all the chores at the house without compensation usually on top of her own job since one income doesn't cut it anymore. What person would want that? Have you tried?

[At3mis24]

Because of patriarchalism! Now women have FREEDOM and men must have to accept it, no but! And woman are NOT slaves!! That's makes me fuc*** angry!!

[Vararo]

@At3mis24
The more power you give women the quicker society falls apart. That’s why we have so few babies being born.

Don’t forget men have build 100% of society and still do. We need women to have our kids and raise them. The more you distract them for that the quicker society falls. Societies rise and fall. The west is falling.

Women only have power cause men give it to them. We could enslave all of you tomorrow. Your brainwashed views only exist if men support it.

I don’t see the value in female life besides having kids and raising them and looking after their man. You’re worthless if you don’t do those things. Waste of space.

[At3mis24]

@Vararo Not all women! Not me! Never! I'm smart like Einstein, be careful!

[tomboy2003]

@vavaro Yes, we women can end all of this shit. The angrier you make us, the quicker we will end the population. Start being humble, before you go extinct

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Waiting for a feverish argument between a looksmaxing teenager and a fierce feminist to start.😶😶😶

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I considered it, but frankly, I'm just waking up, and I'm too tired to debate lmao

[Vaioa]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 what’s to debate.
Men build the whole world while women contribute hardly anything. That’s because it’s your job to have children, respect your man and be quiet.

If that triggers you, then you’ve been brainwashed. Male life is worse than easy female life where everything is handed to you on a plate.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lmao nope, not gonna do it. I'm gonna enjoy my morning and ignore this sexist and just overall wrong mindset. Have a good day!

[Vaioa]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 it’s not sexist if it’s true.
I don’t get how feminist views are anymore or less sexist than mine.

[DarkLegacy]

@Vaioa LMFAO at what you just said

[DarkLegacy]

@Vaioa Feminists think that men are evil and women are perfect and always in the right

[Vaioa]

@DarkLegacy Feminists are at the peak of narcissism

[At3mis24]

I'm the best "lawyer" for it, so I debate, let's go, people! ^^ I want to have fun!

[bobalife]

Everyone has their own standards and preferences, so who am I to judge? It’s all fine lol. It’s about language in delivery and mutual respect on what we all seek in my opinion.

[Apple1996]

Nothing wrong with those type of standards but I do think looks/physical standards are shallow

[The_Sexpert]

Standards and preferences should be respected everytime

If a man wants a trad woman.. he is NOT a sexist

[hellothere90]

I don't care who other people date. It's none of my business.

[Anonymous]

Bitter bitter bitter damn.
Try getting out more.

[Dongie]

Yeah. It made in there by early 90s.