Do guys keep you just to keep you or do they stay because they actually really love you?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

If you feel loved and wanted in your relationship with them , then you are more than likely being loved , if you feel like a convenience to them , then you are more than likely just being used. Love comes from 2 people choosing each other and making each other their top priority , over everyone else in this world , over your friends over your family etc. someone that truly loves you wants you by their side as much as possible , they don’t exclude you from anything , they want you to experience the same thing they are experiencing, even if you are apart from each other , they still reach out to you and want to hear your voice and wish you were with them , if you are experiencing opposite of that? Then you are more than likely just a convenience to them and they truly don’t love and value you , they just like using you for their own selfish convenience

[Straight2thepoint]

Men are simple minded. Its not a Einstein mathematical equation. We keep you for many valuable reasons. The small things that are a nuisance becom irrelevant. If it's time to let you go we go through a self aware stage were you are placed on a scale. Its you vs my values.

[PeachyPie93]

Sometimes they keep you just because.. others throw you away like you were nothing.. it all depends on how they see your value..

[Flower7]

Often guys will keep someone just to say that they have someone. Then try to have other girls on the side also.

[incorrected]

There's no singular answer that will encompass all guys, but in general the only ones that will do that are either possessive, or they don't feel they could easily get anyone else and would prefer a loveless relationship to being alone. Same answer for women.

[luvstoned4him]

Can be any reason really. I just came from a youtube video where a woman details that she was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years , only to discover during their breakup that he was using her for clout and the fact that she was a social media influencer. He said she made him "look good"

[NathanOlipop]

There are some cultures, especially western ones, that keep women they don't want to be with simply to prevent other men from having them. This is also true for the women men are cheating on you with. You aren't able to move on because you're worried about confrontation? This is one reason why I believe women should at least have balls like a man before getting into a relationship, or else you get this and honestly nobody is going to pity you.

[RedInnocent69]

I recently had a similar chat with someone. I think it’s fear and insecurity of being alone. But I also think it probably affects girls more than guys. We’re inherently more competitive, commitment averse, less trusting, and don’t have the same biological clock issues.

[Nikki1989]

The motivations behind a man's actions can vary greatly, so who knows. You just have to try your luck occasionally.

[Purpleronnie]

Would not dream of generalizing an answer for ALL MEN when we are ALL different. Just like WOMEN our motives for keeping a particular partner in our lives can be different.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm sure both exist, you'll have to investigate that yourself

[Anonymous]

Just to keep you. Most men who are single usually questioned for being single and made fun of, so a lot guys want a want a women to keep them for the pressures of being single seen as a creep or weirdo.

[UnusualWeirdo]

We stay because we love you, at least I do. I'm not going to stay with someone just so someone else can't have her, if I'm not happy I'm not staying.

[WhitneySnow]

Could be either. But plenty of guys are amazing and really love you so don’t go thinking all guys are bad or anything.

[LiamJHayden]

I will stay if we are a good match. If not I will end it. Not fair to hold on when I know it is going nowhere. Better to let her go and find someone better for her.

[Anonymous]

I have been obsessed with one girl since I started college. I didn't realize it clearly at first, but I have never been more attached to anyone else. I would do whatever she asked of me.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

It's different for different guys.

Guys have a million different reasons to leave, and a million different reasons to stay.

It depends on the individual.

[slatyb]

There's no telling. All you can know is his behavior. Do you feel loved?

[paledreams]

you'll get many varied answers - in short, hell, most guys are players

[Nerdvana]

A lot of guys will use women for sex. But some are ready for a serious relationsihp.

[Sadia26]

A lot of the times they keep you cause they are lonely not because they are in love.

[Dan290290]

It totally depends on the relationship, honestly

[jahaims]

That depends on the individual

[kaucky1]

Keep you like a prisoner

[Crazzyyworld]

Love don’t last long.

[Crazzyyworld]

Sad but it’s the reality

[spreadmascara]

Do relationships actually work

[Cj_Shway]

Both

[Anonymous]

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