What do I do if a male coworker makes fun of my appearance ?

[Iminmkk]

I was really hurt the last time went too far. I decided to no longer say hi to him or talk unless it’s work related.

what a nasty man. I only say positive things to him. How could he do this to me?

[Nikki1989]

Approach the coworker privately and calmly express how their comments made you feel. Be clear and assertive, but avoid getting defensive or aggressive.

[JesseP1nk]

So you like him huh? Maybe just talk to him. I think he felt awkward so he made joke that went too far.

[Iminmkk]

I like him why do you say so? He said soemthing really cruel

[JesseP1nk]

I dont think you would ask for advice if you did not like him and you would go to report him to your boss instead.

[Iminmkk]

I have been bullied by many men at work before and never reported them.

[JesseP1nk]

Ok i think you should then.

[Iminmkk]

Nobody would care and nothing would happen.

[StevenMcGarrett]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Try to set him up to get fired or find another job.

[Iminmkk]

Thank you. Do you think I can just stop interaction and pretend he’s invisible? He said these things because I thought he was a friend.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Oh, I didn't realize he was a friend. Well it looks like he is showing you his true colors now. If you think the friendship is worth saving, you can try talking to him about it.

[spartan55]

Women just cannot stand if anyone dislikes them.

[Abbycado]

Get on Gag and troll is your typical go-to.

[Plugs]

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