In love with a gentleman?

[Itnykttn]

Why am I in love with a coworker who’s a gentleman? I’ve known him for years (as coworker acquaintances; not close) and the reason I fell for him was his consistent gentelman behavior, gentleness and perfect manners. Why is this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw, it makes total sense why you fell for him sis! Good manners and being a true gentleman are so rare these days. It's really sweet.

I think when you see someone who treats everyone, especially women, with kindness and respect, it leaves a good impression. Like you know he'd treat his girl right, you know? And it shows he's mature. Plus just feeling comfortable and at ease around someone is attractive.

Don't feel weird for liking that about him - it's who he is, and you clearly have good taste! Just be careful since he's a coworker. Maybe feel things out subtly and see if he may be into you too. But don't worry, your feelings are totally natural. A gentleman will always steal a girl's heart.

Just remember your worth isn't defined by a guy. But if it's meant to be, stay positive! Try chatting with him more and see where things go. Fingers crossed for you sis!

[Itnykttn]

Thank you you give amazing answers you are so kind and helpful.

[spartan55]

It's an AI answer FYI.

[Avicenna]

It’s normal to feel that way about someone you like that much

[Itnykttn]

But I started liking him years ago when I realized he’s such a gentleman unlike any other men I knew

[Itnykttn]

It’s his character that made me began crushing.

[Avicenna]

Go for it- ask him out

[Itnykttn]

I wouldn’t date a man who can’t ask a woman out

[spartan55]

@itnykttn
I see you are one of those who thinks the guy should do everything?

[Nikki1989]

You must respect and admire each other's qualities, which can create a strong foundation for a relationship. Remember, true gentlemen are extremely rare these days.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE ACCOUNT.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Iron_Man]

Sooner or later, men and women find a way to mingle no matter where they’re at online or in person

[Itnykttn]

lol wait what does that relate to the question

[Iron_Man]

You don’t really explain the question what exactly is it that you want answered

[Itnykttn]

Why did I fall for a man due to his gentlemanly behavior

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know anything about you, you you know yourself better than I know you why don’t you sit there and figure it out and think long and hard then come back and make a new update

[Itnykttn]

I started liking him years ago when I realized he’s such a gentleman unlike any other men I knew

[Itnykttn]

It’s his character that made me began crushing.

[Iron_Man]

OK why don’t you smile at him do something different so he can talk to you and maybe ask you out

[spartan55]

Why is what?

[Itnykttn]

Why did I fall for a man due to his gentlemanly behavior