I love a man who is in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I really love this man who attends my university. I know him from a uni club and i am also friends with his guy friend. I liked him from the minute i saw him but i obviously minded my business. Then i found out the president of that club is actually his girlfriend. I saw them holding hands in a cafe on campus. I also saw them fight a very bad fight near my workplace (on campus). I even had to tell my guy friend about their fight so he can deescalate their fight as they had a real bad fight infront of our office. Anyway i am no longer interested in him or pursuing a relationship with him since he is obviously taken but i can’t help but get feelings for him when i see him around although i won’t approach him about it. I was wondering how can i cope with this and move on from him?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of a crush can be its own Odyssey, especially when your heartthrob is taken. Looks like you're caught in a whirlpool of feelings, but fear not! The first step in moving on is acknowledging these feelings. It's totally normal to be attracted to someone, but when they're in a relationship, it's our cue for a graceful exit.

Distract yourself with activities or hobbies that make you happy and fulfilled. Perhaps delve into a new project, join a different uni club, or immerse yourself in a book that sweeps you off to faraway lands. Surrounding yourself with friends and family can also be a lovebomb to the soul, keeping those pesky feelings at bay.

Lastly, remember, someone out there is meant for you, and this experience is just one chapter in your epic love story. Keep your chin up and your heart open – next time, cupid's arrow might just hit the bullseye. 🏹💘

[jahaims]

Lust and infatuation isn't love

[slatyb]

Date someone else