Falling in love with a married man?

Anonymous

I find myself developing feelings for my married boss, and our relationship has been progressing in a way that makes me question my emotions. There are several instances that indicate his attraction towards me: His body language often shows signs of attraction, such as leaning towards me at times. He occasionally tilts his head sideways, stares at me for no apparent reason, which suggests a certain level of interest. He frequently gives me compliments, further indicating his attraction. He has opened up about his personal life, sharing details that demonstrate a level of intimacy between us. We engage in continuous texting, maintaining daily communication. He remembers and pays attention to every single detail I share with him, showing a deep level of interest. While I genuinely like him, it's important to note that he consistently talks about his wife in a platonic manner, neither praising nor criticizing her. This suggests that he is committed to his marriage. Some days he even suggests that I should find a boyfriend and drops subtle hints about the need for me to pursue another man. These mixed signals are causing confusion for me. On one hand, I sense his romantic interest in me, but on the other hand, he seems committed to preserving his marriage. I feel overwhelmed by guilt and selfishness for being involved in this situation. So, what should I do?

Falling in love with a married man?
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