Married men do not fall in love with their mistresses. They use them for the kind of sex they no longer get at home. They will SAY they love a mistress, but that is actually a line that translates "I will tell you this because I want to get into your pants." Please take the time to talk to other women about being the "other women" and you will find out that the mistress is often the one hurt in the end. Of course, some do it for the money because the married guy is a sugar daddy, but it seems you are emotionally involved.
Even if was "in love" with the mistress, most men won't give up their kids, their home, their financial stability to start all over with another woman.
If his marriage was so bad he would willingly get a divorce before starting anything with anyone else. Proves that at the end of the day, getting away from the marriage would be worth sacrificing everything I mentioned before. Affairs, not willing to give up anything.
His marriage doesn't seem to be looking good at all. It appears worse than it has been. At this point it seems the wife doesn't even care anymore that he sleeps with other women. He says she won't give him sex anyway, but yet she used to get upset and complain when she found out that he does, plus she let's him do it. He recently said that he has a gf who is married and his wife knows about it and once again let's it go and this is where it looks even worse. It went from his wife actually caring about the fact that it is wrong her husband is cheating to she does doesn't care anymore. This is why it seems the marriage is worse than its been.
How do you know that for a fact. That is what "he says". That's the same line a friend used when cheating on his wife of 11 yrs. The mistress thought it would be OK to have someone leak the news of the affair to the wife to see if she would kick him out of the house. Well, the wife did care enough to kick him out of the house and file for divorce. When he saw that he would lose his kids, home, financial stability... the mistress got the boot as well...
When he leaves his wife and kids for the other woman. Then later on in life he marries the other woman because she force him to then she has millions of kids to try and trap him... A man will always LOVE his 1st wife no matter how many times he get married to other women. Married men do not fall in love with their mistresses. They use them for easy get away sex and laughs at them when they get another new toy
Guys we have another mistress on this site. If a dude is with a mistress he doesn't take "love" very seriously so I wouldn't get any butterflies over it or anything.
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