If u have someone in yourlife i think its ok to find other women sexy or even have feelings for them but what is not ok is pursuing these women and digging for more at that point i would call the guy cheater.
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A married man can, yes. Just as a married woman can fall in love with another man. Obviously this makes for issues within the marriage that need to be explored.
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It's possible, but I wouldn't wanna be with him, even if I was in love with him.
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It's possible. It's not a man I'd want to keep though
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Sure it can, happens all the time. I don't kno why people ask these question, you must know that you have probably liked two guys simultaneously
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Not been in love with both
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Humans crave change. If we lived for a thousand years, we'd go through at least ten marriages normally. (assuming they didn't give up or stay for reasons outside of love)
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If he wasn't absorbed in his married relationship than yes.
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What you think it would take him to leave his wife n kids?
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Well if their we're kids in the mix I'd suggest staying together for them (wish mine did) even if there's no love at least do it for the kids. But if his wife isn't interested in him and I mean at all than, would he want the rest of his married life to not feel loved?
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He loves her but he's in love with me.
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Ooooh... well does he have kids wirh her? Also how does she appreciate him?
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They have 2 teenage kids. She treats her marriage certificate like a deed of ownership
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At this point she doesn't think anyone will challenge her and the kids are teens you say. Depending on the age like 15 or less I'd be on the im not sure side, but 16 or more I'd say take him IF he's not happy.
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13 and 15 he's been with her since he was 14
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So they are high-school sweethearts?
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Kinda but he's an ex military brat and constantly moved until then and he met her after his parents split I think he was desperado to settle down...
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Ah I see, how did his parents split effect him? Cause he's considering doing the same thing?
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His dad cheated on his mother and that is why he is staying put right now
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he's a good man to try and do the right thing and not repeat the mistake his father make. He should give his wife a choice really.
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He told me he loves her but I don't see how he can be in love with her
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Yes. And it happens a lot. Love is just a chemical reaction in the brain. It can and very often does wear off given enough time.
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This is just getting stronger
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@Asker Whatever helps you sleep at night.
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What's that meant to mean? Should I not be sleeping?
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Not if you want to avoid that guy in the red and green striped sweater and fedora.
Yes, it happened everywhere... Married women do fall in love with another man too.
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same as can a married woman fall in love with another man.
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He can, if the love in the relationship isn't strong
00 Reply love is blind but people should not go blind on backstabbing the loved once
00 ReplyYes if he didn't love the one he was married to
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Think he would leave her?
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But no sex is happening with the new one it's about love not sex
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This only all came up 3 weeks ago. We haven't even had sex but we grew closer on a work trip. Things are difficult as his dad is also my boss and I'm now in trouble at work for supposedly pursuing a married man
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You deserve to be in trouble. Married men are off limits. You tell him if he wants you he'll divorce his wife first and have it finalized before you'll have anything to do with him. But you still have the problem of how you'll ever trust him because you know he's a cheating scumbag
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Ha well that's a generalisation. I've cheated before but never cheated on my ex even though I should have coz he beat me etc.
The way he looks at me is like I'm the reason he even lives. I think the whole point of this is he's met that one person just years too late - Asker+1 y
Also as for me deserving to be in trouble I backed off. So no I don't deserve to be
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I'm single.
yeah, if he wants to cheat than its possible!
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He can but hed be a rat
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The simple answer is yes they can. No doubt.
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Yes. Happens all the time
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He's human, isn't he?
What's the sitch?09 Reply- Asker+1 y
He and I went away for work and got closer n basically fell for each other. This happened weeks ago and we haven't had sex
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Have you known eachother long?
Talked for a while?
Or was this the most interaction you've had? - Asker+1 y
Worked together for a year. I was determined to be professional when we were away and he made the move.
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This doesn't sound like love to me tbh
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Definitely not in love
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Tell tale signs have been popping up now tho that I should have noticed sooner
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Such as?
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Like before Christmas he was meant to be taking pics of work and when I looked there was a load of headshots of me. Other things like lingering looks and just in depth stuff...
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What in depth stuff?
None of this sounds like love.
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Yes he can but he will most likely fk things up...
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