This guy took me out on a date and he was nice but honestly the date didn’t go well and I thought both sides thought so mutually. There was not much conversation and it was awkward as hell. Whilst he was on the way to picking me up for the date I also realised he is good friends with a guy I was seeing before so that also threw me off the whole idea. Anyway I went with it and I remained polite, thanked him for paying and dropping me home. I said thank you for a good night and told him to get home safe etc and he said “see you soon”. The following day he messaged me saying “hey babe how are you” and again I responded to be polite as I was going to communicate and be honest about how I felt if he mentioned seeing me again but then he literally left me on delivered and never opened my message when I responded to his. What is the explanation to that? Why even message me in the first place? Was he trying to make himself feel better that he got a response and he was the one to ghost me? Or perhaps the other guy mentioned something to him in the meantime (which would be even weirder because I responded in 15 mins) It’s been 4 days and I find the whole thing so strange. I mean he did me a favour as I hate the whole “let’s just be friends” conversation after a bad date but he’s literally 5 years older than me and behaved very bizarrely
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Why does anyone ghost? Fear of confrontation? Avoidant in nature? The reasons are endless, but at the end of the day it just shouldn’t matter. No one owes anyone closure, it’s just the polite thing to do. He may not have thought you’d care because you both weren’t feeling the date and I’m sure he also didn’t intend on moving things forward. He didn’t want to have the uncomfortable conversation and just left it alone. Since you felt the same mutually, don’t let this bruise your ego. It just isn’t that serious.
He sent you the last message so that he had your response and proof that he had brought you back safely
Thank you for the answer but he dropped me home and knew I got in safely?
You are welcome. But he got the proof by you replying to him the next morning.
Also this was his way of making sure you were not upset with him so he could not have to see you again and worry about you ruining his reputation
How did act bizarrely?
By messaging me after the date and then not responding to my reply? He literally could’ve said nothing lol
Why are you making a big deal out this when you don't even like him?