We make plans to meet, and every time we are supposed to meet, he never texts?

[Anonymous]

I have had this happen a few times to me already. I made plans with one guy, he told me we could hang out. Then when the time came he never messaged me, or answered my texts. Then he did it again. Told me a different day we could hang out, when the time came for us to meet, he hadn't messaged all day. So I messaged him to see if he was still coming. He never responded. It has been a week now. This happened to me with another guy as well. He told me we could meet twice but then never message me the day we were to hang out.

Why would someone do this?

[ohsheeT]

How well do you know these guys and where did you meet them they could be married or have a girlfriend but I mean if they're planning something with you this year at least call you or text youre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Asker]

What is all the random stuff at the end of your opinion?

[ohsheeT]

I don't know I asked the question I asked gag what all that was and they still haven't answered me if you pay attention there's it's on everybody's answers and nobody has figured it out yet I don't think I've seen it on anonymous questions or answers though

[ohsheeT]

So have you figured out why these guys are doing this

[spartan55]

You are asking the wrong question Why are you allowing it?

[Asker]

I'm not allowing it I just don't understand why so many do it

[spartan55]

The guy blew you off three times, that's allowing it.

[Asker]

No the first guy did it 2 times, the second one just did it to me. I don't know though, I'll probably cut him off, he just posted in his social media but hasn't even messaged me, yet told me we could meet up last night

[spartan55]

Twice is once too many...

[kylee2437]

Men that do this shouldn’t even be a thought in your head. Forget about them

[Asker]

True. I'm just so attached and I don't know how to get over him now. It just hurts when people play with others feelings

[kylee2437]

You shouldn’t be attached to someone that couldn’t even commit to a first date. Please go through some therapy before dating anybody. No offense. Attachment before a bond even happens is not healthy

[Asker]

No, I mean the last guy I talked to i got attached to. We talked for a while. This new guy is more of just a friend but it's upsetting because he lied.

[kylee2437]

If he is lying, then he isn’t a friend. Just have to let stuff go.

[Ironic_Method]

People like that aren't worth the time. They are either lying in some form or you are not even remotely a priority. Find someone that wants to see you. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Skinleskin]

You know who he is now. Leave him.

[Skinleskin]

They’re just unreliable selfish immature boy men.