Why do men have to have it so easy?

[chocolatetwopointo]

wish i was a man fr

[Anonymous]

Men don’t have it easy we just don’t talk about all the things we go through. I don’t have to talk about how bad things were at work everyday. I can’t control my emotions better. Women tend to overanalyze everything. Had a girl upset all week cause some of the other women I guess get together outside of work to hangout but she wasn’t so her feelings were hurt. You don’t know how many times women complain to me at work about other women, this group hates that group. Again most of us men don’t talk about what we go through cause really, no one listens. Women really don’t care about men’s feelings. Even if they do listen most of them take offense to what a may says. So many women ask why do men do this or that as far as when it comes to women, then you’re honest but they still disagree. No that’s not the reason why. Or you’re just a misogynist. Look up the few women who transitioned to men. They found out the hard way life was easier as a female. There was a lady named Norah Vincent who went undercover as a man for 18 months. She ended up seeking help because she couldn’t deal w what men go through. She eventually ended up deleting herself. We don’t get paid more just cause we’re men. If that was true employers would just hire women and save a lot more money than paying men more as you say. Most people, especially in their teens through twenties don’t make a lot of money. No we don’t get treated better. We get treated like shit a lot of times especially by women. We aren’t cuddled when things go bad the way a lot of women are. We aren’t allowed to cry. We’re supposed to be a certain height, make a lot of money, just to be able to get a date w a female. You’re not subjected to selective services. We’re just so used to it it just becomes who we are. Men realize no key is coming to save us. We have to save ourselves. A lot of times women can easily quit their job or get fired but still have a place to go, like back home to mom and dad. Even a man will take care of her, most of the time she doesn’t have to work if she’s a good partner. Trust me you’re better off being a female.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yet i hear ab ur problems 24/7 smh.. Yeah men’s feelings can also be hurt, ur not the only man in the world yk. what do u go through then? i think women care more ab mens feelings than men do tho soo. if u said something offending im guessing she’ll be offended. so tell me, whats so bad about being a man? the only thing is that u can't talk about ur feelings, thats js ur ego tbh. u can get a therapist, loads of guys go to therapy and if ur friends make fun of u, its time to get new friends. women aren't cuddled when things go bad. women are also supposted to be a certain height and have way higher beauty standards so dont even try that card lmao. most girls would date a guy that can simply pay for himself. Women basically need to be perfect for a man to even look her way. loads of men go back home to their parents when they get fired or quit tho? and most of those men end up like fat gamers. nowadays men dont take care of women, they use them as slaves. LMFAO okay so whats so good ab being a female? literally your only problem is that you can't cry, which u can change by changing ur envoirment. women are met by misoginy daily.

[Opinion Owner]

lol you’re 16 you haven’t experienced much. You experience what you see in high school. Trust me women get their feelings hurt easy. My only problem is that I can’t cry. There’s a lot of things. I just don’t cry about them because crying won’t fix those problems. Maybe when you’re older you’ll realize how much life is better for you as a female. As for beauty standards, women do that to each other.

[chocolatetwopointo]

only sensitive women and desperate women actually get their feelings hurt. yeah im 16 and I've alr been catcalled and assulted but I don't know anything at all, how many times has that happened to you? i never cry over my problems, and women js have more empathy. no explain to me now how life is better as a woman. ill wait. women and men created those unrealistic standards, thats why like the majority of girls under 15 alr has some sort of eating disorder, i dont think i know a single girl who doesn't have an eating disorder atm

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me you’re better as a female. There’s no point in explaining it to you cause you’re of a different mindset at your age compared to me. I think regardless of what I say you’re set on what you believe. So it won’t matter. Maybe you’ll think differently when you’re living on your own, working up to 60 hours a week. No I'm not complaining I work that much, it’s just what I do. But in my experience not many women want to work or even do OT. I work in a field so I aged by women. Nothing but drama, always calling off. Asking me can I do this or that. You’ll think differently in 15 years.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no explain to me. i dont have a different mindset im realistic. I wanna be a lawyer so that is probably gonna be my future and im fine with that bc ill get my hard earned money. i won't think differently in 15 years, what do u think will change? explain to me, ill wait.

[Opinion Owner]

Raises being a lawyer do you want a family? Kids? Have you watched the video or read her book Self Made Man by Norah Vincent?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont want kids i hate kids, not every woman wants kids, hope this helps! no whats it about?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Than your career should work out for you because most men don’t want career women. Do you go on much dates?

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao so what do men want then according to u? nah i dont date, esp not boys my age, way to immature

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly a lot of men want a wife, stay at home mother. But a lot of men won’t say it because they’re labeled as misogynist. Not all, but a lot of men do. At the same time w the economy it’s not always possible.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah bc its admitting u basically want a slave💀 then u go complaining u have to pay for everything smh? yeah its pretty impossible in this economy unless ur rich af

[Opinion Owner]

No believe it or not there’s actually women who want that type of life. It’s not being a slave if she prefers that life. I don’t see how you can’t understand that concept. That she’s a slave. Sounds as though you’re already set in your ways like I said. Instead of listening, asking questions like oh are you in a relationship like that, you start throwing out nonsense. That’s why men don’t talk a lot cause women don’t really listen.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah ik, but it still gives slave vibes to me thats why i won't do it but idc if others do it. why would i ask if ur in a relationship? im not ur situationship, we’re talking about how men have it easier than men. im simply being realistic. what have i said that u consider ”nonsense”?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok well you obviously don’t k ow how to have a conversation. This isn’t about being in a relationship w you. It’s about knowing how to converse w others to learn more. I’m asking you questions so I can get a better feel of things as far as your life. You can’t even hold a conversation w a stranger indicates to me how you would be w your partner if you find one. You catch more flies w honey than you do w vinegar. It was nice talking to you I have to get ready for date night w my slave after 16 years for some reason she still loves to be w me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im answering ur questions tho? i dont see a problem i think we’rw having a perfectly fine conversation. i dont want a partner anyways. god men get offended easily lmao

[chocolatetwopointo]

so ur gna leave now? if so im gonna go to sleep byebye

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I have plans w my slave of a wife.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah bet ur gna abuse her a little more huh?

[Opinion Owner]

lol this is why we can’t converse cause you’re immature

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you remember this conversation in 15 years when your thought process changes. Good luck to
you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i was just kidding but ok lmao, u never answered what u think was gonna change? u think im gna be one of those man slaves or?

[spartan55]

Says the 16 year old. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[chocolatetwopointo]

then explain to me, ill wait

[spartan55]

Let's see: higher suicide rate, much greater chance of being killed at work, military conscription, lack of social services dedicated to them... there's a start.

[chocolatetwopointo]

by the way u do realise the reason for all those problems are men, right?

[chocolatetwopointo]

at least u get paid more, treated better by society, get taken seriously, doesn't have to worry about men 24/7

[Kayleigh2005]

I love being a girl use it and get want ever u want 💕

[chocolatetwopointo]

literally how?

[Kayleigh2005]

I love men and have been messing with them on cam for a long time

Do some better then anyone else, the way I talk about drink and sex I’m studying accounting, nobody can take away what u lived through

Being on cam I know the difference between being just pretty and sexy

Have friends the u look up to not the losers i hung out with in HS

Most of all u are in charge as a girl learn how to say no

[chocolatetwopointo]

why dont u js work for what u want?

[Kayleigh2005]

What I work and paying for my own college how did u get that out of everything I wrote smh

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure u do u, but why do u mess with men? what does it bring u?

[Kayleigh2005]

Oh I do cam stuff free not sex cams lol

I love sex and even more attention.

Men talk better and lie better

Mainly control after thinking about it and it’s super addicting

Just by only showing ur feet i can get them to do almost anything i ask, I don’t have to take off ur clothes, shorts and ur legs spread a little bit gets u everywhere on cam u in real life 🤣

U what some real advice the comes up the old men sending me stuff that I think is real buy crypto and go to college and learn about birth control

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u js want attention? thats really sad if u think ab it tbh

[Kayleigh2005]

Please every girl likes attention and if u only got that from what I typed u should probably be a guy

[chocolatetwopointo]

no, i dont like attention esp not from men. thats literally what u said girly💀

[Kayleigh2005]

No I said if u act like a girl u have it easy !

[chocolatetwopointo]

sure u do u, id rather act like a man then

[Kayleigh2005]

I think u just need to accept ur sexual identity first and things in ur life will be a lot clearer 😊

And that I want to marry my boyfriend is for when u are 60, no sex, no relationship, period

[Kayleigh2005]

* marry my best friend, auto correct

[chocolatetwopointo]

wdym by that? ur making no sense rn pls elaborate

[LiamJHayden]

I definitely like being male and my life has been pretty easy so far for reasons, but I've dealt with enough family law cases that I can say that is not always true.

[chocolatetwopointo]

like what?

[LiamJHayden]

Like a good dad who works from home not getting primary physical custody when the mom is a drug addict.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay hope he divorced her, and can't he use her drug addiction as evidence in court?

[Anonymous]

You're a clueless 10 yo child who has no idea what disadvantages men face. Go grow up before posting naive shit like this.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so tell me then, whats ur biggest problem in life?

[Anonymous]

We only have it biologically easier. Society is much harder on men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

Men are struggling in society because they are told how they are “animals” and “disgusting creatures" and made to believe that they are only capable of doing wrong to others. Men are criticized on everything they do.

Male victims of any sort are often overlooked. The believe if men can only be the abusers and never the victim.

When a man succeeds in his career, he isn't given as much credit because he is told that it was somehow “easier” for him to have that success, and that it is harder for women to have that same success, when in reality, that's just not true. Mem are told this from a very young age. He will get no respect if isn't successful, but he's made to feel guilty when he does become successful- there's no winning.

It is much easier for women to get good jobs because of affirmative action. I think this is really messed with men's mental health. Again, we are told we are priviledge and have it easier, but then we are women getting opportunities handed to them.

Men are a lot more sensitive than women realize. A lot of women resent all men because of the actions of some. Women can be really mean to men and in the way they talk about men. This genuinely hurts men because despite what women believe, we don't hate women and we actually care a lot about what women think of us.

[Opinion Owner]

But then we are seeing women getting opportunities handed to them

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah bc other men has ruined yalls reputation by being disgusting animals, and how many times have u been called animals or disgusting creature?💀 Male victims are usually overlooked by men, women are the ones helping and supporting them. Men get praised for successing in life bffr man. its true that for a woman its harder since men overlook women as emotional and think women aren't capable of doing hard work. Why would u feel guilty when u become successful? and i think only ur parents pressured u into becoming successful. LMAO, how are women getting oppurtunities handed to them? yeah ofc women are scared of men bc lots of men do bad shit, blame men for that. unless its a bad man its not okay to talk bad ab a good man. good for u, most women dont hate u either lolz, when are u seeing women getting oppurtunities handed to them?

[Opinion Owner]

That was pretty much word for word the response I was expecting. You weren't asking to try to understand or offer any empathy whatsoever.

Muting Q now.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not ur therapist man?

[firenine909]

Why do you want to be a man?

[chocolatetwopointo]

it’d be so much easier, and i probably never would’ve developed an ed when i was younger

[firenine909]

What’s an ed? Physically i’f say things would be easier but socially they might not. It might be harder to make friends and to meet other people if you aren’t good at communicating as a guy

[chocolatetwopointo]

eating disorder. lmao its sm easier getting friends as guys lets be honest, my brother is friends with loads of guys js bc he plays football and often play at our local fotball field, guys js get together and play, girls talk shit and r bitchy usually

[firenine909]

Are you anorexic? I have a lot of eating issues myself but the reason less guys have it is because people care less about how guys physically look so there’s no reason to be as insecure. It’s easier to get guy friends but it’s harder to get girls to be friends without thinking weirdly about you. You have to know the right people. Some girls like to complain but a guy being masculine can make a girl act nicer

But you could be perfectly fine and just paranoid about how you look too

[chocolatetwopointo]

nah but i had body and eating issues from like 9 years old. Yeah exactly. come on, guys dont wanna be friends with ugly guys either, most r js friends with girls to get the chance to sleep with them. the point is i dont wanna b js fine i wanna b better, and as a man that would be sm easier.

[firenine909]

What’s your body type? I think it’s better to be more honest with yourself and to make healthy decisions over caring what other people think.

If you want to be better then motivate yourself to do so. There’s no reason to be hard on yourself, no one is perfect and you should take pride in who you are as a person. As a man you might not be as muscular or have toned abs and you might be dealing with the same thing.

You just need to know the right people. For every guy who wants to sleep with a girl there’s a girl who yells at a guy for being a creep. It’s harder to make friends as a guy but that’s because the “fake friends” won’t try to associate with you in the first place. You just have to get to know people better first to know what their intentions could be if they have any.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i think rectangle, but how is this relevant rn? As a man i would wanna be as attractive as possible tho and id prolly workout and stuff. yeah i js dont wanna be friends with guys as a girl.

[firenine909]

What’s stopping you from working out as a woman? Women can become a lot more attractive than guys ever could just because there’s a lot of appeal in women.

Are you going to disguise yourself as a man when you hang out with other guys? Lmao. There are a lot of girls you can become friends with so you don’t have to associate with guys but it seems you want to do something like play sports with them. You just have to be smart and know when a guy is doing anything funny but a lot of guys are pretty chill around girls, in some cases you’re overthinking things.

You could even go with your brother. Nobody will try anything funny when he’s there so you don’t have to worry, I think the biggest thing is you’re over worrying about what people will think about you when that shouldn’t be the case. You should do what you want to do.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont think being muscular is pretty on me. i was giving an example when saying my brother got friends through sports. most guys dont wanna be friends with girls anyways, and i dont wanna b friends with them, i have never said i want to be friends with men. i was js saying its easier. why wouldn't they try anything funny if my brothers there? literally WHEN did i say i wanted to be friends with guys?

[firenine909]

I meant as a guy you’ll need to be muscular. You could just be skinny with no muscle. As a girl being curvy and having a fit body while wearing cute clothes is where it’s at.

Then in that case be friends with girls. Just try to find girls who like you back as well. Girls can be fake but if you’re honest about your feelings and are real with them they’ll be more real back

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah thats why i said, as a girl id workout a lot to get muscular. u can't get curvy unless ur alr curvy and have the body for it already. yes i already am wth😭 girls talk shit behind ur back all the time no matter how nice u are

[firenine909]

Girl or guy? Even as a girl you can’t muscly abs. You can still get a more fit body and have more curved thighs and a bubble butt even as non curvy girl.

For girls who talk shit behind your back tell them in front of their face that you can hear them and that you don’t like it. They try to be sneaky but if you’re direct with them they’ll stop

[chocolatetwopointo]

im fine thanks, i dont wanna look huge. yeah but i can't hear them but i know. this is the thing, u never know how its like bc it doesn't happen to u

[firenine909]

They’re the same women. They just won’t associate with me or they’ll suck it up around me. Mainly I’d say not associate with me in the first place

I could give you some pointers on your body if you’d like me to help you be able to appreciate your body more

[chocolatetwopointo]

i alr appreciate my body, i had an ed when i was YOUNGER.

[firenine909]

What do you like about it the most? There’s no way you’d look this way as a guy and you should take pride in the fact that things won’t have to be as hard for you anymore

[chocolatetwopointo]

what r u talking about rn?

[firenine909]

I’m just mentioning there shouldn’t be a reason to worry about it if you already like your body

What do you like about your body now?

[chocolatetwopointo]

when did i say anything ab worrying? i dont see how thats any of ur business?

[firenine909]

Then would you rather trade what you have now for being a guy? I’m wondering why you’re worried about guys having it better then

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes? i would never have periods, never have to fix myself for an hour js to look decent. id get paid more, get taken more serious, never have to worry ab getting pregnant or such

[firenine909]

You could have shorter hair that’s easier to fix or not go over the top with it sometimes. Pat is determined based on what jobs you take as well as how aggressive you are asking for promotions vs there being an actual pay gap. Thats something you’ll learn more about as you get older. Which cases weren’t you taken seriously? Would you have a lot of sex or more sex if you couldn’t get pregnant? Because if you’re not going to then I’d feel like it’d be a moot point

[chocolatetwopointo]

i would be so bullied and my ears r huge id look ridiculous and i need makeup. men usually get paid more than women even if its the same job and position. Women are seen as weak and js less than men, so people dont consider they could be etc a boss or president. Nah id have the same amount but id js have to do nothing if a girl got pregnant, i could leave and maybe pay child support, thats it.

[firenine909]

“Leave and maybe pay child support?” Lmao you could get plan b or an abortion, I just found that comment funny. Would you want to know what it’s like to be a guy and have sex, how much have you already done of it so far?

[chocolatetwopointo]

still, its sm better to be a man no concequences to basically anything. no idc ab sex and I've never had it

[firenine909]

So you’d remain a virgin? Do you choose to wear modest clothes too or do you worry about looking sexually attractive around other people?

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro I don't know? idc what people think of me i wear whats warm

[firenine909]

What about during the summer?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i wear wtv i want

[firenine909]

I feel like you’re in a pretty good position and don’t need to be a guy to appreciate what life has to offer you

[chocolatetwopointo]

what do u think life has to offer me then

[firenine909]

Well a lot. You’re a pretty girl who’s learner some important lessons. You just need to meet the right people and find close friends. You already know how to be happy

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not pretty, and what lessons did i learn? i alr have friends? im js saying life will always be easier as a man what the fuck are you not understanding

[NathanDavis]

easy to what?

[chocolatetwopointo]

everything basically

[NathanDavis]

examples?

[chocolatetwopointo]

get taken more seriously, paid more, treated better, not having high standards at a young age

[NathanDavis]

well, you are very very young... and too young to know more and to know better

I won't babble around about what it can mean and imply to be a man in this world, but I'll tell you... if you already think that life asks too much of you, well... it will be even more demanding once you become more of an adult that has to be on its own

[chocolatetwopointo]

no explain to me, whats so bad about being a man? when did i say i didn't know it was gonna be more demanding? im not retarded

[NathanDavis]

just one example... it is mostly men, who are in the military, it is mostly men who are in the police and security forces... and it is mostly men in general, the ones that do have to deal with other stupid dangerous men

and this is just expected... and this is yes, very demanding and very draining, and the very first victims and negatively affected by the stupidity of human beings are usually men, it is usually men who are in the front line and against it

which leads men to become violent, mentally ill, angry, frustrated... get killed, get murdered, to get abused and tortured... and many times you lose yourself in these things, your sanity, your identity if not your life

so it's not like all men are immune to it... a lot, if not most men have to go through these things and more, as well

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah women are still seen as not capable of being in the military and police force so they’re overlooked. i dont understand your point in the second paragraph. That happens to women too yk?

[NathanDavis]

exactly my point yes..

and you just said it yourself...

it happens to women too... it means it does happen to both
it is not a gender thing

[chocolatetwopointo]

so then u can't use that in an argument

[NathanDavis]

your argument is that men have it "so easy"

and you just accepted that men have it as hard as women

you countered your own argument... but that's fine, you're too young to discern better

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg my point is after all that, you’ll still get treated better, paid better so it’ll be worth it. sadly ill never have that

[NathanDavis]

you already have it better than most people in the world if you are in the USA

now do something good with it for yourself

you're not in Gaza, you're not in Ukraine, you're not in Sudan or Iran or elsewhere

you're full of "first world privilege" make something out of it

[chocolatetwopointo]

who said im in the USA?💀

[NathanDavis]

your profile says so

[chocolatetwopointo]

where? im from sweden

[NathanDavis]

lmfao...

Sweden can be even more privileged than the USA, so...

[chocolatetwopointo]

how exactly?

[NathanDavis]

yeah, you wouldn't even know...

if you think Sweden is where women have it the hardest, then you really don't know much about the real world

[NathanDavis]

real as... in the bigger picture

[chocolatetwopointo]

when did i say women have it the hardest here?💀

[NathanDavis]

exactly the moment when you said men have it the easiest...

[chocolatetwopointo]

when did i say women have it the hardest in sweden bro?

[NathanDavis]

when you generalized about this argument of yours... that's when and how you did it

[NathanDavis]

but you're too young to realize it

[chocolatetwopointo]

i said women in general have it harder bro.. then explain to me? u say that in every single comment but won't explain lmao

[NathanDavis]

and they don't, not in general...

in specific situations, yes... but those are specific, and being specific applies to all genders, not just women

I try to explain this to you, but you're not get able to grasp it

just because you don't want to understand it in the first place... and that's what young people do, lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

explain how men have it harder in general then? js say u can't explain it man💀

[NathanDavis]

I already did...

[NathanDavis]

harder... in specific situations

[chocolatetwopointo]

u didn't tho..

[NathanDavis]

I did... you're just too young to want to understand

[chocolatetwopointo]

no u didn't..