He said he could see me being his girlfriend then 2 weeks later says he’s not ready for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this guy for 2 months, things were going well. One day he told me he’s really picky with women but he could see me being his girlfriend. Then out of nowhere he stops messaging me as much. I asked him about it and then he said he’s not ready for a relationship. Did I do something wrong? What does this mean?

[yvanvangoth]

You didn't do anything wrong. There's always a reason for something. Perhaps he really isn't ready when he thought he was. So, if he tells you that, just know that he probably really isn't. Or, he thought he was interested but now isn't. These things happen. I would say, move on. If he really was into you, then he wouldn't say that.

[Stevepro68]

Well I could be brutal and say something terrible here. The truth is men lie to get laid. Its not you it's him. Time to move on.

[Daniela1982]

Why, did he change after you had sex with him? 🤔

[Asker]

No, there was no sex. Just getting to know eachother 🫤

[Daniela1982]

So that must have been the reason he balked then. If they can't get sex they bug out. You are probably better without him.

[Anonymous]

He either changed his mind, or he found another girl.

[spartan55]

Have you had sex with him?