How do I pick non shallow men?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been rejected and ghosted frequently because I don’t have friends to get dressed up every Saturday night.
I just go gym and work and on a rare occasion get dolled up.

[lightbulb27]

you are a pink anon asking this quetsion, is kinda ironic.

[Abbycado]

Unfortunately, you really don’t get to know that until you spend time with someone.

No way to tell if they will be like that just looking at someone.

[LeatherDame]

What criteria are you using for picking which men to pursue/respond to?

[chilldude33]

By not being shallow yourself.

[DerekC321]

It's trial and error, I'm afraid.

[Predetor]

I would like to help you