We grew up together… I liked him as a teen he paid me no attention… we followed eachother on social media and he was active on my page at the time….
We never had eachothers number but I had a dream about him and he had been on my mind…. That Thanksgiving he had got my number and he said “hey ****, this is ****…. Just wanted to say happy Thanksgiving 🦃 love you!
We never had eachothers number but I had a dream about him and he had been on my mind…. That Thanksgiving he had got my number and he said “hey ****, this is ****…. Just wanted to say happy Thanksgiving 🦃 love you!
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Sounds like it , because not hearing from someone in 7 years is a long time , so he is now saying this to you after all that time? So just take it as a friendly compliment but don’t assume he wants more with you than friendship , when a guy really likes a girl he doesn’t disappear for that long without keeping in touch
I don’t need or want him in my life.
Good riddance
Yea 7 years is a long time for someone to try to reappear into your life , you don’t really knkw who that person is anymore and they sure as heel don’t know you anymore. , that ship has sailed a long time ago. Lol
I’m the one who unfollowed him first tho… he tried to stay connected after I moved away ig
Why did you unfollow him? Cuz you don’t like him that way correct?
lol you didn’t read my post😭
Yes I liked him for years… he made me nervous or I felt like he was trying to play me or something… he kept liking my pics and watching my stories but never reached out
He only commented on my post at 3am about basketball since he plays basketball
So it’s clearly up to you if you want to give this guy a chance , I can’t make that decision for you
But that was in 2017… I had accidentally sent a drunk dm to him saying fuck you and I tried apologizing… but he never responded
In 2021 I had a dream that we reconciled and not much later he text me and sent me that Thanksgiving text and said love you but you’re right… it’s not romantic…
Well that’s good that you both reconciled your differences and no more harsh feelings
I haven’t heard from him since lol I don’t think he wants me
It sounds like you both don’t want each other , but you both don’t hate each other
We’ve known eachother since we were 5
So you are friends ‘ unless you want more than friendship with him? Than that’s up to you to decide
We went to the same church and our dads were good friends.
He was the very attractive guy who played basketball and who was popular… I was the opposite
But I don’t think he wanted me he probably just wanted an ego boost
But I don't know why every girl liked him… I liked him I just wasn’t all over him and I ignored him…
Look when you like somebody you're always going to like that somebody not unless they do you wrong somehow so of course he's being kind he is testing the water and his Thanksgiving time he's lonely. Send them back a message saying thank you
What's your name again who are you oh yeah I remember now LOL now don't do that but you could that's what I would do but I would have a good comeback for it
And you just don't need to go jump into anything either you have to think about it weigh it out pros and cons and be honest 100% honest with yourself
I was probably just a thought when he was lonely
Well has he been in contact with you anymore
I mean if you really likes you he should be in more and more contact with you he should be flirting with you seeing how things have been what have you been doing and blah blah blah to just send you one message did not keeping a conversation going that's kind of crazy weird anyway
No he hasn’t
Well it makes no sense like you said maybe he was just lonely maybe he came across a piece of paper or something that had your name and your information on it so he decided to say hi
Well guess I didn’t matter after all. Thanks
Well maybe you just got busy
Maybe he just got busy LOL
And by the way everybody matters
It’s safe to say he genuinely doesn’t want or care
What kind of sounds like you were hoping that he did
Probably testing the waters
Testing what exactly? When I responded he just hearted my message
He likes you. He’ll probably flirt with you some more. What did you say when you responded?
I just said thank you hope all is well and love you too…his father may have told him to reach out maybe because he knew I was alone on the holidays
He never made any real effort to talk to me
Maybe. See if he reaches out again.