Do men tell their best friends EVERYTHING?

Question

Do you ask them for advice if you've done something really taboo?

Do you tell them about every naughty thing you get up to

Do you tell them about every woman you've fancied or hooked up with, even if it was wrong?

What else do you tell them?

How come a guy's friends start paying more attention to me and showing more positive interest or joking around more with me, whilst before they didn't pay much attention to me?

Why are his friends looking me up and down like they might suddenly be attracted to me also?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Men like to brag men like to tell stories men have egos men lie

The odds are if the man tells another man something about a woman's it has probably been exaggerated..

You see it on here all the time they'll be a guy talking about a girl then you just have sex with and she sucked in bed

I laugh at these questions when I read them
Because with the guy just said is that he sucks in bed
Because I guarantee it there's no woman on this planet that sucks in bed
And if the guy really thinks that she does why didn't he fix it he's a part of it maybe it was him it was him because he didn't do anything about it and try to even teach so he's the one that sucks in bed

When a guy does something with a woman he respects himself he respects her so he's not going to say anything to anybody he doesn't need to brag that was between him and her a beautiful moment and he's not going to tell the world or even his friends about it if he is true to himself if he's not too himself he's a liar he's going to exaggerate he's going to try to make himself look good and if people really listen he's a jackass and he'd just be little to himself because he didn't know what he was doing

I used to work with a group of guys some little bit younger some a little bit older than me Friday's or Saturday night sweet I'll get together we'd go to a club and some of these guys wives would try to hook me up introduce me to one of their friends and come Monday morning all at work and everybody would start talking about what they did after we left each other guys were talking about their wives and I was just look at them and say dude we know her what are you doing their girlfriends the girls that they might have picked up on and they would always ask me what did I do with the girl that I was with and I would just laugh at them.. I said you guys are right there watching what do you what do you want to know what did you do it's none of your business. Did you take her home it's none of your business. And I tried to explain to these guys this is the reason why your wife is want me to go out with you guys because you guys are rude you guys are little kids you talk about your wives and your girlfriends like their strangers why do you try to make them look bad it makes you look bad it's nobody's business with anybody does don't you respect your girlfriend and that was basically the reason why they like going out with me because of what my morals are values are ethics are

My best friends don't even know the things that I do because it's not their business and I'm sure in the fuckt I'm not going to make the girl look bad because that makes me look bad if I did

So no not all guys tell their friends anything really there's a lot of guys that do because they want to fit in they want to have that ego fuck that ego. But there's only a few men like that there's not too many

Like I said most guys are going to blab their mouth they're going to lie they're going to stretch the truth just to make themselves look good

Garud · Accepted Answer

Do you ask them for advice if you've done something really taboo?
a- No, if I am doing it, I know I need nobody's advice.

Do you tell them about every naughty thing you get up to
a- no, it will ruin my image and will be used against me and it is a personal matter.

Do you tell them about every woman you've fancied or hooked up with, even if it was wrong?
a- Yes, I talk about the type of woman I want to fancy about. Although I will never have a relationship with a woman with wrong intentions, my intention will be to marry her. But if any of my friends found me doing this, then I would slowly end the friendship.

What else do you tell them?
a- to my close friends, my career-related problems and other family problems related to land and property, about things like hair clothes, and my personal beliefs.

How come a guy's friends start paying more attention to me and showing more positive interest or joking around more with me, whilst before they didn't pay much attention to me?
a- Because you gave them positive feedback in your way, they are looking for something, you have to judge their intentions yourself.

Why are his friends looking me up and down like they might suddenly be attracted to me also?
a- All men do what nature has made them to do. It may be true that some of them get attracted to you suddenly, but only for a few seconds and if they find out that you are with someone else they will stop doing it.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

some people are more open than others... I don't think it depends on their gender but more on their personality and past experiences

CarolinaGirl5 · Accepted Answer

Men aren't big mouths like women. Men have filters they know what to say and when to say it.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

My best friend is sort of my surrogate little sister. I usually do tell her everything but, the past few years, we hardly ever talk. Mostly because she's dealing with her kids that went through hell because of their sick, twisted, demented, perverted jailbird father and because she's been so busy trying to make money at her cleaning job. When we first met in college 21 years ago, we used to chat online for hours every night. Once she got heavily involved with that asshole, the nightly chats stopped cold!! At best, we e-mail each other once every month or two.
I guess I SHOULD write to her, soon. I have some great news to tell her, for a change!

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

No, while men often share a lot with their best friends, it's unlikely they tell them absolutely everything; most people maintain some level of privacy, even with their closest confidantes, and the details of what is shared can vary based on individual personalities and situations.

Key points to consider:
"Bro code" can influence sharing:
Men might be more likely to share certain aspects of their lives like dating experiences or personal achievements with their close male friends, while keeping other sensitive details private.

Not all men are the same:
Just like anyone, some men may be more open and communicative than others, impacting how much they share with their best friends.

Privacy boundaries still exist:
Even with a close friend, individuals might choose to keep certain personal issues, vulnerabilities, or family matters private.

mstbooblover · Answer

Telling everything to our best friends would probably just be terribly boring to them... And also, what's the use of telling everything? One can tell things according events and subjects coming up in conversations, but even then, why tell more than necessary to the understanding of a particular topic?

What should be kept in mind is, on behalf of friendship, that it is wise to allow best friends having secrets, and in case of discoving some of those secrets, it is wise not to tell them we know about what they didn't want to tell. Case sensitive as always.

devankush · Answer

Men often share a lot with their best friends, but not necessarily everything. While they may discuss topics like career, hobbies, or relationships, certain personal or emotional matters might stay private. It all depends on the bond and comfort level between the friends.

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glennos89 · Answer

Guys don't share as much information like woman do.

I tell my best friends some personal things but I never tell all the details, especially not sensitive things like my sexual life. I keep that for myself

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Nooooooooope. Not even close. My bestfriends barely know shit about me, I barely know shit about them, and that's the way I/we like it.

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

I don’t tell my friends much. My core group rarely will discuss our physical encounters with girls etc. unless is only a hookup. Even then we would only mention something weird or extreme than happened.

Anonymous · Answer

What could he have told them that would cause them to act so differently towards you?

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. I do not discuss any intimate acts with anyone except the other particpant.

Summeroflove · Answer

Some people do because they don’t have a limit on what they will tell someone

exitseven · Answer

My best friend and I would tell each other a lot but not everything. He died a year ago and I sort of understand how important he was to me.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

About 75% of things, but some aspects of Golden Boy are for Golden Boy alone.

Jennz6 · Answer

Men love to tell their friends about sexual conquests

Wiredone · Answer

No I don't tell my best friend everything about my life

Jerre · Answer

My private sex life is my private life and I do NOT share with anyone.

worldscolide · Answer

Most things, but sex stuff is off limits.

Kelly6 · Answer

@kezharris mostly they do tell everything

MisterWack · Answer

No. .

Surely · Answer

I don’t kiss and tell!💋

noohair · Answer

Private means private. Gentleman’s code...

dougeats · Answer

Most things except that I am bisexual

scott04sa22 · Answer

Most do, most dont

shortster · Answer

Not everything.

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