Now im not for one minute trying to say that my crush likes me back, but i find his behaviour odd.
We only see each other at break times and when id look at him, he would be gazing at me and holding his gaze. Then he would smile at me and id reciprocate. I’d always be the first one to look away.
Recently, when we made eye contact and smiled at each other I said hi to him (for the first time) and he smiled even more. We smiled at each other again the week after, but since then, he has been avoiding eye contact.
When we are in close proximity, he will turn his head away from me and I find it a little awkward. He recently said hi again but he said it quietly and scurried off
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Because men are monsters and violent.
He is acting appropriately.
He clearly likes you.
He is used to being disliked by most people (men and women, but disproportionately women) his whole life. Being man is an isolated experience compared to a woman.
So he isn't sure you like him, rightfully so, because most people dont.
If he were to look at you any longer or take the leap and approach you. And say that actually you dint like him... He could very well be a "perpitrator" or rejected and ridiculed.
The chances are that you don't like him.
And the chances are that he likes you, because most men are alone and deprived of affection and intimacy, not to say he won't have standards, it could be the case he dosent like you, but being as he has acknowledged you multiple times and persists with the precision level of attention... He likes you.
He wouldn't give you a 2nd look otherwise.
If you are intrested in him, don't be "friendly" or approach as a friend... Because your not, you want him to do dirty stuff to you and give you babies... So don't confuse him.
Just next time, let him catch staring at him, when he looks don't look away. Smile, but not a small smile, like a smile the way he makes you feel. If he says hi across the room, dont say hi back, just keep eye contact and smile/ smerk like you know what your doing... because you do.
(if he looks away, keep looking, because he will look again, make it a now or never moment / line in the sand, what your doing is not a mistake but purposeful)
Be inviting, but make coming over the only way to get a verbal / physical response, this is you showing you want him to be intimately social with you, and you want him to come over.
He will come over to you and ask you out.
We can't do that, because we would just be a stalker and be prosecuted lol.
He is YOUR crush. That doesn't mean he likes you. You understand this, right?
lack of confidence