How do I console a man who’s moody and has low self esteem? Is it weird I feel the urge to be his mommy in a way?

[Masochisticuglybitc]

• I hear him talk himself down and I just wanna nurse him physically and hug him
• I want to sacrifice myself and my
• body to him
• he makes me heart feel so open and soft when he puts himself down and I want to be a sacrifice at his feet to use me

[SueShe]

Well, your profile name says it all. You seem to be a person who derives sexual gratification from her own pain or humiliation. That is exactly the definition of what being a masochist is.

You want to humiliate yourself to try to console a person that should actually be seeking psychological help. That person does not need you. He needs to be helped by professionals that will go to the source of his psychological issues.

However, I feel that you don't really want to help him but that your aim is rather your own personal satisfaction rather than his, right?

[Nikki1989]

Don't sacrifice your needs to accommodate his mood swings. It is not worth it.

[236color]

I think allowing him to "use" your body, might very well help his self esteem immensely, but are you still going to want him if his self esteem and mood improve dramatically? From your post, and your handle, I'm not so sure.

[slatyb]

Be supportive, but don't mother him. How was he raised? This is often a result of abusive or neglectful parents. Would he consider counseling?

[Summeroflove]

It’s not weird it’s called having empathy

[EmmaMary]

You need serious therapy.

[dustybiker2]

lmao

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker2

That's what I was doing at the time of typing this! 🤣

[dustybiker2]

Have to appreciate the effort though.

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker2

I guess so!

[NewWaves]

You need Jesus

[Iron_Man]

It’s ok