My friends with benefits got upset because I didn't add a name to his contact info and he did is it rude?

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

[Finchie40]

It sounds like he likes you more than just a FWB’s , considering he is showing signs of insecurities. Some guys’ are very territorial over a girl he is having sex with , but the truth is , he is selfish as well, by him wanting his cake and wanting to eat it to. FWB’s only work if both people are on the same exact page with things , if you both aren’t on the same page , that FWB’s isn’t going to last whatsoever , especially once jealousy comes into play. The truth is , he isn’t your boyfriend , so he has no say on what you choose to do with your phone , he can get jealous all he wants , but you are not his girlfriend period , if he wanted you to be his girlfriend he would of tried to make the both of you official but instead he thinks he has some sort of control over you while he runs around sticking his dick into other girls’ The only way I will be FWB’s with a girl is if her and I are on the same page with things , I only do FWB’s with some strings attached , meaning we both only have sex with each other , but we are both open to date other people if we choose to , if one of us ends up sleeping with someone else? We promise to end the benefits part between us and just remain friends. Me personally would never be FWB’s with a girl that wants to run around screwing other guys’ , it’s dirty and degrading and sadly putting you at higher risk of catching STD’s

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

I've tried asking him but he nvr admits he likes me more but gets upset with me over stuff I don't know but thnx for your comment

[Finchie40]

If that’s the case , he is just a selfish guy that’s wants his cake and wants to eat it to , he basically just wants you all to himself , while he runs around screwing other girls’ . You should really reconsider having sex with him if that is the case

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

I mean, he's a simp.

Why would you be upset with a 30yo bike. You are what you are.

What you doing sleeping around man.

Cut him off, will be doing him a favour.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Lol leave me alone it's my first time omg

[demuregirl]

This happened to me, although I was saved under a name of his language. Which he wouldn’t reveal what it meant.
I won’t lie, I was upset because deep down I caught feelings, cared about him and thought I’d at least be important enough to have my name in his phone.
That’s probably how he’s feeling.
Maybe try and question him why it bothers him so much and provide a clear explanation of how your friends with benefits dynamic works.
He may just be lost in your sauce girlie! Hope it helps :)

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Yea thank you but sometimes i think he is so dramatic... nd I'm new to this I don't know how it works. But Thnx

[Flower7]

A friend with benefits can’t have any expectations. No, it’s not rude.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Thnx I'm new to this whole thing

[itsannalee]

Why would he even checked your phone contact, he is just friend. Has no right to get upset with that. Just replace him.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

He didn't check my phone he called himself nd looked over to my phone

[Horn_Hog]

Try speaking softly to him through fat, cum covered lips.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Lol wtf

[Horn_Hog]

Make @elf_erectus jealous because his lips are never fat or cum covered, even though he speaks softly like Santa's sissy.

[Elf_Erectus]

@CluelessBUTTERFLY If your friend felt left out because they weren't named in your phone, I'd say, "Jingle all the way" to open communication. Perhaps remind your friend that in the spirit of Christmas, it's essential to keep things merry and bright, even in the digital world. A simple explanation and an apology, if need be, can go a long way. After all, we elves don't want any coal in our stockings, do we?

But let's not forget, in the twisted workshop, punishment comes in many forms. From floggings with a sprig of holly, to nipple clamps as hard as rock candy, being sent to bed without dinner like a good little elf, or even the scorch of hot wax from Christmas candles marking our rosy cheeks. Oh, and let's not leave out the occasional reindeer play, where one of us might find themselves antler-deep in a roleplay. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus, and he's quite the creative disciplinarian.

So, in conclusion, as we hang our stockings by the chimney with care, hoping that Saint Nick doesn't catch us in his net, do extend that same courtesy to your friends with benefits. Keep the joy of the season, communicate, and avoid being on the naughty list like I am, forever. Remember, it's not just about the gifts under the tree; it's about the love and understanding we share, just as much as the ornaments that decorate our branches. Now, if you'll excuse me, I must return to my post, awaiting my next session with Santa, my red-suited master.

[yvanvangoth]

Well, then let him be upset, He's just a friends with benefits, nothing more nothing less. He needs to know his place and role.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

True

[michalpl00]

Is friends with benefits trying to be more then just friends. He cares. I guess it’s a bit rude not to add someone you know. And see. And fuck. But I don’t do hookup shit

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Good for you

[Anonymous]

Eh…. Friends with benefits isn’t the best idea a lot of times one person gets more attached then the other. Sometimes it’s the man and other times it’s the woman.

[Cute_User513]

I mean contact info is just for you to distinguish between numbers so I think it’s rude to get upset over it

[kaucky1]

That's rude bet you're not satisfied dumb ass gotta give oral to girl first not even have to chit chat

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Umm I am I just kept forgetting to add him he's just dramatic...

[StevenMcGarrett]

Not rude. A friend with benefits can't get upset over that.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Thnx

[StevenMcGarrett]

Welcome. Good luck.

[KrakenAttackin]

Any woman with a fuck buddy isn't worthy of respect. Sorry, not sorry.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Ummm you probably don't get pussy

[Anastasia06]

Probably he want you to be exclusive while he isn’t with you from sounds of it.

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

I don't know he told me when he's with me he feels more at peace it's not just about sex... I feel like he confuses me... he sometimes gives me a cold shoulder... it's frustrating

[Anonymous]

How do people have time to worry about things like this?

[Nikki1989]

How would he even know that?

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

He didn't check my phone he called himself nd looked over to my phone

[RHK36]

Get a new friends with benefits

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Ummm it's my first time tbh nd I think he's overly dramatic... not planning on another one

[Jay-_-]

He's your "friends with benefits" 🙅🏽🤦🏽

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Yea so I'm not sure how this works... thnx

[Jay-_-]

Oh usually a friends with benefits is no strings attached but I wouldn't know anymorn

[lorenzomichael]

Well, add his contact under “my Friendly dick”

[CluelessBUTTERFLY]

Mmmm Lol