Which look should I go for at 27?

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve accepted that this man and all men will never choose me… and the last guy is attracted to my transgender cousin and it broke me… he made me feel not good enough like most men

instead of settling and having a family/ kids I decided to get into onlyfans but I don’t know which one of the looks to go for … my cosmetic person is giving me fillers and other things but I don’t kno what look to go for

First woman

Second woman

3rd woman

[SquishyBuns2628]

No honey nooooo omg noooo. You are you and you don't need any fillers for any man to be attracted to just your outward features!

I don't know if you're religious (I'm not and have no intentions to be later on in my life) pray to your higher power and ask them to send you a man that likes you for you and not just your body.

Whatever the reason the last guy into you went for your cousin (I refuse to label your cousin as transgender and would much rather label your cousin with their new affermated gender that they have chosen for themselves) wasn't the guy for you.

When a man is only interested in your body you'll feel used as if a peace of you that you've been wanting to fill inside yourself is now still empty. I'm only saying this because when I was in my last 2 years of high school and my 1st 2 years of college I was in the mf streets sleeping with whomever wanted his time with a big girl because the saying goes everyone loves a big girl behind closed doors.

After a std scare (thank the universe im clean) I decided to chill out and fall back. By the time I was almost done with my 2nd college yr, I thought about sleeping with a new type of guy; nerdy ones.

Well that plan fell through because when latched my claws into the 1st nerdy guy I was interested in he said sure. So I'm thinking we about to f*ck; he said respectfully I'm taking you out on a picnic date. And now 6 years later we're still together. We haven't had sex yet because after that moment and multiple other moments with him to have a man respect me and yet still want me sexually (I be making him hard aka "blue balls" for fun) is crazy to me because I thought it would have never happened to me. And in our 3rd or 4th year I had a talk with him that I wanted to wait till marriage to have sex. He respected that till this day and introduced me to his family.

And when I say I'm a big girl I don't mean that little tummy shit. Like no; I'm a size 24/26 in pants, I got back rolls for days, arm wings, double chin and a fupa (he said he likes my fupa because good pum pum need a home - he's Afro Caribbean (Jamaican dad)).

Of course I've lost weight over the years and my fupa and back rolls remain (smaller but they still here lol).

So you just have to wait. Put your energy into wanting to change for men to want you, into energy to change your mindset to better love yourself and thr skin you're in. Therapy also helps 💕.

And this advice goes out to any person tbh. Love yourself and put fourth energy into being the best you. And if yesterday was bad there's always tomorrow to be a little bit better. Take baby steps, you've got this 💯 👍🏾

[Jackblue]

Be forewarned, onlyfans people don't make that much money, so don't try to make a career out of it, additionally in the past people have lost their day jobs for appearing on onlyfans though as far as I know it has been mostly teachers.

[Chelsdope0]

I am a teacher

[Jackblue]

In that case you may want to avoid onlyfans.

[ChicoFromThe305]

None of these, go for something more natural, unless looking like Squidward after consuming all those krabby patties is what you are going for

[beefcakebradybatson]

Will I be able to retain my breakfast, let alone enjoy lunch, plus there's a Christmas Party at my assisted living centre today!!! (Remember, I'm 71 !!!)

[bowenw]

I chose number 3, but I would have to see the front to say for sure.

[Anonymous]

Yeah men are so terrible they don't pick women that like them for who they are.

[Juxtapose]

What kind of guys are you dating?

[SquishyBuns2628]

Exactly.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah, there's a lot of sweet guys out there who are romantic but not spineless. I hope she can find someone good for her.

[nawtee_me]

You are the all American girl…. ;)

[Amur8711]

Your still young, give it time.

[Rohaan2020]

Second one looks good

[Rohaan2020]

Third one might also look good if u have a bigger ass

[SquishyBuns2628]

Oh hush you! You're the type of guy that's only interested in women for their looks smh.

[Rohaan2020]

@SquishyBuns2628 ok

[Danny_dan92]

Zero

[Anonymous]

LMAO!