Guys, Guys how do I get my boyfriend to communicate and open up to me?

[Anonymous]

Its always been the same with every guy they just really struggle to communicate or open up. My boyfriend opens up to his friend easily and i dont know why he doesn't communicate to me when its things that have to do with us?

What am i doing wrong? Or what can i do? Because now that i found out he doesn't open up and tell me everything its causing trust issues.

[Anonymous]

You can't. All you can do is be a safe space for him that inspires him to want to open up. This is something HE has to want to do.

[Asker]

I thought i was.. his friend in texts even told him he should open up to me and my boyfriend responded that i won't be able to handle it. I have been through a lot and i have handled a lot and he knows this. Is there any ways i can be a better safe space maybe? Maybe im not doing enough

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said "he's got to want to" again , just because you do everything under the sun doesn't guarantee he's going to want to.
Maybe you aren't doing w ough, maybe you are and the issue is he simply doesn't want to.

[glennos89]

Some guys never learn to comminite openly

[jahaims]

He needs to mature