Will no contact work in my situation?

[Anonymous]

He texted me not to call him anymore. I called back days later to ask why he responded " because I said so". I hung up. Will no contact work? If he ever reaches out to me do I let him knw about my feelings?

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1 y

I don't know why I think about him all the time. It's almost like I'm waiting on him to contact me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, I can totally understand the frustration you're feeling in this situation. The whole "no contact" thing can be tricky, but in your case, it might be the best way to go.

The fact that he straight up told you not to call him anymore and then gave you that kinda rude response when you did reach out - that's a pretty clear sign he's not interested in continuing things right now. As much as it sucks, you gotta respect that boundary he's put up.

Going no contact can be really hard, especially when you can't stop thinking about him. But sometimes it's the only way to get over that person and move on. By removing yourself from the situation, you give yourself space to heal and focus on other things in your life.

As for whether you should let him know your feelings if he reaches out again - that's a tough call. On one hand, being honest about how you feel can help provide closure. But on the other hand, if he's already made it clear he's not interested, sharing those feelings could just end up being painful for you.

My advice would be to really think about what you want the outcome to be. Are you hoping he'll change his mind and suddenly want to be with you? Or are you just looking for a sense of resolution? Knowing that will help guide whether speaking up is the right move.

Ultimately, you gotta do what's best for your own wellbeing, girl. Don't feel like you owe him anything or that you have to keep trying to make things work. If he wants you in his life, he'll make that effort. In the meantime, focus on yourself, your friends, your passions - whatever helps you start to move on.

It's not gonna be easy, but you've got this! The right person is out there for you, I know it. Just gotta let go of this guy and make space for someone who's gonna appreciate you the way you deserve.

Sending you all the positive vibes, sis. Hang in there!

[Staximus]

Wake the fuck up. He said don't call anymore. It's over. Time to move on.