I’m going to go see him by flight , should I make it or on my schedule or his?

[Anonymous]

He said a specific day would be better, but he can work around my schedule and make it work. What would you do girls? If it was a guy saying this to you? Would you put yourself first or work around his schedule?

[Anonymous]

I’d say do what works for both of you. On the other hand as the female id say have him come see you but make it still something that can work for you. I say this because I’m thinking how well do you know him? Will you be staying w him? What if things go wrong? Do you have a backup plan as far as where to stay or being able to fly out immediately back home. Do you have family where he lives that you can call if things don’t work out or he turns out to be a jerk or take advantage of you. How well do you know the town or city he lives in? I’m asking because I think most men would just be like fuck it let me go get a room or find something else to do. A lot of women would be distraught. Look at the girl who went from Hawaii to LA who was supposed to catch a connecting flight to New York. She never made it. I think she met someone else there in LA, then she was never seen again.

[Opinion Owner]

I meant to say make it something that can work for both of you but have him come see you.

[Abbycado]

Well, you gotta come up with something that suits both of you. You are making the effort but he can adjust (if he can) as a courtesy.

[jahaims]

You are playing immature games. Do what works best for both of you.