Why millennials men put their mom first before their wife?

[Alwayreckles93]

https://youtu.be/t9tkxNUhpMs?si=JXLh29wwJ9hnKgUQ This behavior has become very normal with millennials guys just can't seem to want to leave the nest.

[oldpigg]

In fact, millennials are quite beta simps, they are submissive to their wives. I am generation Z and I prefer my mother, I don't waste money and time on women.

[Alwayreckles93]

No they are not submitted to their wife's. Well you are just a kid you are not capable of making choices for yourself. How would you know millennials you don't have no millennial friends or know any millennial guys. The only good guys are generation X men. Yes generation X guys are the best they follow the law and rules they go to church know their bible scriptures. Millennial guys do not even believe in God.

[oldpigg]

No thanks, I'm not spending my money and time on women.

[Alwayreckles93]

This question is for adults not for kids so go help your mom clean the house kid.

[oldpigg]

No thanks, I'm not interested in spending money or time on women..

[Anonymous]

Maybe because a lot of women these days aren’t worth it. My mom’s been there for me for 46 years, kind of hard to just dismiss my mom. But everyone is different. In what way would you say these men put their mom before their wife?

[Alwayreckles93]

Monster in law.

[Alwayreckles93]

Fake you must be a 60 year old woman behind that blue profile. You troll

[Opinion Owner]

And you wonder why men don’t put their wives first. You’re a prime example. Yes I’m some 50 year old troll woman. Maybe it’s you who’s attracting men like that. Ever think maybe it’s me? Of course not cause it can never be the woman’s fault, she’s perfect in every way lol

[Alwayreckles93]

I cut off my mom my husband always comes first before my mom or my siblings. Since she doesn't want to be a Christian she chooses Catholicism I want nothing to do with her. My husband is always first he follows Jehovah unlike millennials guys wanting to be atheist and not reading Bible or refusing to attend church. And why are you so upset about my post? If you really are a 46 year old dude you are a generation X not a millennial 30 year old this post was for millennials in their early 30's specifically not for you Sir!

[Opinion Owner]

lol I’m not upset about your post first of all. You chose to see. It how you see it by internalizing it through your feelings. It was an opinion thinking you’d have an actual conversation but like a lot of women, especially younger ones you lets your emotions take hold of you. As for him taking his mom over you, women seem to have no issue w cutting their dad or mom or both out of their lives. Men don’t seem to do that as much as women.
It’s amazing how she can’t kick her own religion even though she’s older than you, gave birth to you. What’s wrong w that? She try to put some satanic spells on you or something? Like I don’t get your decision for her picking Catholicism. Maybe I read this all wrong. Your explanation is all over the place.

[Alwayreckles93]

I am not obligated to maintain a relationship with my mom. She cheated on my dad and took away my child support money which believe to me not her. My dad is a good men a good Christian too. I do not owe my mom ANYTHING. I am not obligated to respect my mom either she is a whore a cheater who cheated on my dad. If I could I would ran that bitch over with my dad's dodge ram truck 1500.

[Alwayreckles93]

Why are you now defending my mom? First you talk trash about woman and out of no where your defending my mom.

[Alwayreckles93]

And FO NOT COME UP TO ME TELLING ME I OWE MY MON RESPECT WHEN SHE WAS A WHORING AROUND CHEATING ON MY DAD! When my mom gets old I will let go hungry and will not change her diapers she can fought in a poopy diaper I don't care

[Opinion Owner]

lol ok no we’re getting somewhere. If you want people to understand you or why you asked the question then maybe you should explain more of this rather than going off on a tantrum. I wasn’t defending
Your mom. I was asking why she could t make her own choice. But now that you explained this it makes more sense.
So now what has your husband done as far as picking his mom over you?

[Alwayreckles93]

Ok this not about me or my husband my post was about my cousin's situation he is 30 years old and still with mommy while his is married owns a house he has a 5 month old child.

[Alwayreckles93]

Ok so my cousin choose his mommy instead of his wife. I support his wife. I hate my aunt she is related to my mom.

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh ok so seriously you personally in your own opinion you do think I am obligated to respect my mom?

[Opinion Owner]

So you’re simply saying you hate your aunt cause she’s related to your mom?
That is up to you to have respect or not. But I think it would be in your best interest to let all that go. Am I defending what she did? No. But you’re carrying a lot of heavy emotions to at can’t be good for you. Have you talked to your dad about this? How does he feel? Had he gone down hill after your mom did what she did?

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes My father who is a good men he is a bible teacher volunteer at church worked really hard to give our family everything. My dad remarried a new good Christian woman. But still I should I forgive my mom? Yes I hate my mom and aunt that whole side of my moms family. My dad told me that it's over to just forget about it. NO I am a human and I have each and every right to hate my mom.

[Opinion Owner]

You can do whatever you want. I forgave my ex-wife for what she did to me which is basically the same thing that happened to your dad. In order me to move on I had to. I had to forgive her for myself, for my growth to move on. I don’t forget what happened but it doesn’t anger me like it used to. That is up to you to decide. If you’re that religious than you know she will answer for her choices. It’s up to you. I know it’s hard.

[Alwayreckles93]

You should hate her. After the hell your ex put you threw she doesn't deserve your forgiveness. Tell me her name and I will punch her face. If I was your sister I would look for your ex and punch her face kick her as I would made sure your ex wife would end up in the hospital.

[Opinion Owner]

So this may sound like a stupid question but is that you in the pic w the baby?

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes and I am a happy Christian.

[Alwayreckles93]

I hate your ex wife. I hope she gets breast cancer.

[Opinion Owner]

Well thank you. I don’t hate her that much. She will face what comes to her as life moves on. I have to try to be a better person. To talk to people who may have felt like I did at one point.

[Alwayreckles93]

But what about your ex wife that hurt you, Don't you want to make her suffer?

[Opinion Owner]

No. She’s not my problem anymore. I’ve moved on from that, it’s been years.

[Alwayreckles93]

But she deserves to be miserable

[Alwayreckles93]

What makes you think she deserves your forgiveness? Forgiveness is a privilege not a right.

[Opinion Owner]

Because there’s no need for me to Joe that anger in me for the rest of my life. It does nothing for me. It’s a big boat of mixed feelings off my shoulders.

[Alwayreckles93]

I am not a hateful person I just wanted justice.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. I’m just a happy person. I like talking to people, doing fun things. Again keeping that hatred in me for her doesn’t do me any good.

[Alwayreckles93]

Your better human then me. I am sure you would end up in Heaven. Not me I have a hard time letting go of things. I hate people who done horrifying things to me. It's hard to manage because I ended up punching that person. If my mom was in my face I would end up in trouble with the law.

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve noticed women tend to hold onto things for a long time. Even u til they die. A lot of times men just move on or turn it into something productive. I say that because we just had a funeral, family all showed up but at the same time some of the women family members had their little groups. It’s just sad.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yeah that common we attend to be more dramatic. Even when we fight we grab and pull each other's hair. So men do never feel hate? So you never felt hate?

[Alwayreckles93]

Well I do not speak with my older sister after my husband and I help her out she punch the walls and made wholes on our home walls. Yeah I want nothing to do with her. She's 40 even if she dies I would never attend her funeral. I cut her off like cold turkey.

[OlderAndWiser]

There is a reason why many men are like this. Since the raising of children is done by women far more than men, I guess this is the fault of women.

[NathanDavis]

"we couldn't have this moment for ourselves"

then goes on posts it for the entire world to shit on... lol

[AnonAndrew]

I don't think the mother did anything wrong, to be honest. The wife seems a bit oversensitive, and is blowing things way out of proportion.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sorry but nobody comes before mom and I don't care who doesn't like it

[Alwayreckles93]

Typical millennial mindset.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hey think what you want my mother brought me into this world and a real woman wouldn't try to make you choose. That's like me trying to come before your child it just doesn't make sense!

[Alwayreckles93]

Live my child out of this. I am married I was told if my mom doesn't follow Christian standards I must cut her off immediately. Om one of Jehovah witness Divorce is a no for me. I believe a child must be raised with a mother and father not by single mother. Your mom ok your choice but do not forced your lifestyle onto me. Ok again I am a Jehovah witness.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Listen this i why I could never be a witness the have to much nonsense in the religion that in direct conflict with the Bible and the Bible clearly state honer thy mother and thy father and your days shall be long upon this earth. Let them tell it anybody that not a witness you can't deal with because we're to worldly the tell the men they can't have a beard when ever pic you see of Jesus he has a beard. Use your own mind that's why God gave it to you. Don't just let people tell you things. God doesn't break up families smh

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh gosh another Catholic! Yes you are correct you could never be a good witness why? Typical you love the world I bet you go to the club with your buddies go to bars and talk to younger woman. Yes it says that but only to the good Christian parents not to the deadbeat parents! It doesn't say allowed your parents to abuse you either! Interesting you Catholics never share the scripture that states Parents DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN! A mother who was a teenage mom deserves respect? Your pathetic! A mom who was a hoe deserve respect? Absolutely not. Honor only the parents who were good Christian parents not the horrible parents idiot!

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm not Catholic and no i don't go clubbing that a colossal waste of time. But I do have fun and there is nothing wrong with that. It's funny you just posted why your ex was so mad when you talked about his religion when you made cause I talked about yours. And your right I can't be a witness cause I wouldn't join a cult