Why millennials guys always make their first priority mommy siblings and friends first before their girlfriend or spouse why?

[Alwayreckles93]

Is this a millennial guy trend now a days? I had this same issue with my ex. To my ex his mom and his litte teenage siblings at the time are til this day his number priority. One time I confronted him about not spending time with me his little sister was 16 his was giving her rides to places yet he never ask me to join him. Yet his mom was first before me his mom hates me for some weird odd reason. I tough at first I was the only woman dealing with this issue in the past. Turns out my ex isn't the only one a lot my friends are now married with kids unfortunately they married to millennial guys who seem to be men child and disgusting to see how close they are with there moms considering they are in their early 30s ridiculous. It cought my attention is this how the millennial guys brains works now a days? Who is it normal for a example a 32 year old to put his mom and siblings friends first before his wife and child? I made a research apparently millennial woman are now dealing with postpartum depression thanks to they're I responsible millennial men child husbands who neglect their wifes. Why millennials guys neglect their spouse so much? I just got get it. How hard is it for millennial guys to spend time with their spouse?

[ClassicDropout]

I can understand a wife being mad about this, but my friends and family always come first over a girlfriend. I'm just not neglecting everyone else that has ever cared about me because a girl I met recently wants some attention. If we're married, that's different because that's a whole different level of commitment. I've been through this before. I am helping my parents pay their house off, and I got into it with an ex because she wanted me to pay for her car instead. I think it's pretty obvious to choose your parents there.

[Alwayreckles93]

Do yourself a favor! Please stay single and never get married. Even if you were married it would be the same thing. Boy mom. This is why I choose to marry older guys.

[ClassicDropout]

Sure thing

[DJB72]

Because a lot had absent fathers and learned their behaviour from mummy. That makes for a generation of extremely weak men.

Even if their parents were there physically it's no guarantee the dad either didn't zone out or get seriously undermined by the mother. Pop culture backs it up. In the last 35 years I can only think of one TV series where a strong father and husband was a central figure - Bones - and the family dynamic was actually seen. Everything else from the Simpsons to any series where the family was the central core had the mother as the strength and the dad as the punchline.

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was a young man, girls were told, "If you want to know how it would be to be married to a guy, watch how he treats his mother."

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes my grandmother always told me that say. 👍👍👍

[Crimsyjo]

Maybe we need to watch how the mothers treat the sons too! Get some tips lol

[strateguy632]

I was born in 1970s and also agree with that.

A girl *freind is truly low priority, t. b. h. because they "come and go" on whims.

But friends have lasted longer! Earned priority! therefore the saying "pals before gals"!

family has high priority due to family and again higher than even a wife, unless not a healthy family.

[Alwayreckles93]

But your situation is different you were raised in a Christian family.

[Ironco]

What? That's coming from a gen x person.

What are you talking about?

[Alwayreckles93]

No Gen X guys are more loving with their spouse I never seen this behavior in Gen x. Millennials guys are not moms search it up.

[Ironco]

What are you talking and ask about?

[LiamS95]

Not sure, buy the woman I love has my undivided attention always.