Why is he jealous about an actor that I like?

[Anonymous]

I mentioned a guy I saw in 2/3 different movies in a short time and he made jealous comments about the guy being banal.

wtf? Can someone explain?

[Anonymous]

Not sure if he was jealous. Might not even be an insecurities someone pointed out. Most men know their girl probably has a crush on some celeb. We really don’t care. We also know that her getting w that crush probably will never happen so no need to think more of it. Where it may sound like jealousy is when he gets mad like your man did. But mad not because you find the actor attractive. Mad, irritated because you keep pointing it out. It’s like ok I know stfu. It could be taken as you’re shoving it in his face for some reason. That’s the only time I’d get irritated by it is if she keeps mentioning it. Sounds like that’s what you’re doing to me.

[Asker]

Not sure to understand what you meant? To my side, I just mentioned it was funny to see him in 3 different movies in a little time so why did he react like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Because there’s no need to keep mentioning it. It gets old. Like ok you like him don’t need to point him out every time. It’s not jealousy a majority of time you’re just tired of hearing it.

[Asker]

I just said it once lol after seeing him 3 times in a few. There s a problem reacting over a guy who is a fictive character

[Asker]

I mean that’s really weird and it sounds very insecure

[Opinion Owner]

So you wouldn’t be mad if he said he like some girl who had her tits popping out, ass bouncing around? Even if he’s insecure you don’t know why. Maybe you should try finding out before judging him.

[Asker]

But you compare 2 different situations…. I just mentioned the recurrent presence of the actor when you are talking about a girl having her tits popping out and ass bouncing …wtf?

[SpaceGalaxy]

he cares about you a lot and does not want to share you

[Asker]

Ok but that’s creepy no? This is just an actor, a fictive character

[SpaceGalaxy]

feelings which come from the heart (like what he has for you) have no sense behind them so do not try to understand them, it is purely from his heart which at times may make no sense at all.

[Asker]

I think it’s strange because this guy also sees another girl that he says she’s a friend but I know she s interested…

[Anonymous]

Jealousy , I used to date a guy who did something similar.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[itsannalee]

Insecurities

[NicholasRedone]

Or his jealousy ☺️😆

[Asker]

@NicholasRedone jealousy is a form of insecurity

[AnonAndrew]

What did you say about the actor?

[Asker]

That « he is banal and that I notice him everytime »

[AnonAndrew]

What that what you said, or what he said?

[Asker]

He said that, that the guy was banal and that I was always noticing him..

[AnonAndrew]

I was thinking of when you wrote:
"I mentioned a guy I saw in 2/3 different movies in a short time"

What did you say when you mentioned the actor?

[Asker]

I just said that there was again this actor in the new movie and that he was everywhere. 😶‍🌫️

[AnonAndrew]

Oh, that was it? Then I think his reaction is a bit surprising even for a young, insecure guy.

[Asker]

He is 40 years old…

[AnonAndrew]

Then all I can say is that I find his behavior odd, but I can't find a reason for it, I'm afraid.