Why does he get so jealous of other guys!?

[igtacrushonu]

He hates when.

1. Other guys hug me.

2. Other guys flirt with me.

3. I talk to other guys for a long period of time.

4. I talk about other guys.

5. guys check me out.

6. guys call me sexy or say soemthing sexual to me.

Why iz he so jealous.

&& it alwayz seemz lyk he gets mad at me when it happens.

&& it's not usualy my fault.

Why iz it that he gets so jealous!?

Updates

+1 y

well, uhm thank you guys for the whole me being "hot". I thiink. lol


But once I asked him and he told me it was because I'm "beautiful" and that I could probly get any guy I wanted, but I can't make him understand that he is the guy I want. =/

[Ghostwriter]

Every girl seems naive to this. Numero uno is okay depending on the guy. Numero two is annoying but inevitable. Numero three is disrespectful, along with four unless it's a mutual thing, five is nothing, and six is very annoying, and if it's in his presence than the other guys need to learn boundaries and head butt a brick wall to knock some sense into themselves.

He's jealous because he's insecure, simple as that. You're either out of his league looks wise or he needs you to pat him on the back and tell him everything is okay. Let him know how you feel. But if your talking about how hot other guys are and talking to them for hours...is he really the guy you want? If so, I would drop a few of the bad habits. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Fear of you cheating on him if he's your boyfriend. Look lets be honest your picture shows your gorgous. And you have one of the most beutiful chests I've ever seen. And guys are going to be dying to get there hands on it. I know that's a little blunt but its the reality.

[igtacrushonu]

=/

Uhm. Okayy.

I'd say thank you, but I don't think I should. lol

[amber10-79]

1. He's insecure about himself

2. He's unsure of the strength of your relationship

3. He's possessive, and a control freak

4. He's concerned that it won't take much for another guy to steal you away.

or

5. All of the above; If that's the case, RUN!

It's never healthy (or really successful) to be with a jealous or overbearing man. It generally means he's controlling, which generally leads to abusive; whether it be emotionally, psychologically, or even physically.

My suggestion: take a very close look at your relationship; get your friends or familis' opinions' and aspects of it, and analyze the hell out of it. Good luck. ~Amber

[lost-angel]

Coz you're HOT.

He's worried he might lose you to someone else.

Just reassure him, alot. He needs it.

And try not to hug too much. Because I mean, look at you, who wouldn't want to *hug* you! - *I want to hug you* :)

And when you talk to other guys, try to keep a distance.

My boyfriend is the same way. He tells me its because he's afraid of losing me. And because he knows what other guys are thinking when they check me out.

So just reassure your man, and the "getting mad" part should lessen. If not, then, tell him to get over it or he WILL lose you.

[namelesstranger]

My guy is exactly the same. If something with a penis so much as looks at me he goes into a sulk for about 3 hours. The best you can do is assure him that he can trust you, though I think the whole territorial thing is an evolutionary throwback that's damn near impossible to get rid of. They'll be marking us with their urine next (ewww, I really wish I hadn't typed that).

[Nutz76]

Well, how would you feel if cute girls were giving him that kind of attention in front you and he did nothing to dissuade them? If you didn't feel a little jealous you'd certainly feel like a tool for just standing there watching all that.

[igtacrushonu]

I'd probly want to beet there ass. and maybe his.

But it's not lyk I throw myself at other guyz.

I'm just a friendly person and I get along with everyone.

[Nutz76]

Yeeeaaaah.... I'm not buying it. First off you just admitted you'd feel the same way he does, but in the same breath you dismiss your disrespectful behavior. You need a reality check little girl before he dumps you for disrespecting him.

I suggest reading this thread and get a better idea of what's in store if you keep this up: link

[igtacrushonu]

I never go out.

I'm always home waiting for him to call me.

I only look at him in sexual ways.

Your making me seem like I want attention.

I FUCKING DONT.

[Little-Hippie]

Does he have a reason to be?

link

[Lis4Loca]

Hahahahahahaa

[Nutz76]

Owned!

[igtacrushonu]

I don't get it.

[Little-Hippie]

Follow the link, sweetie.

[igtacrushonu]

Lol that's not nice. that was a while back! and I was just thinking not doing, we all think about shit.

[coolguy93939]

cause its park

of his primitive

monkey instinct

to protect what he

considers his.

other people tend

to not let their

emotions bother

them too much

[mario123]

well to tell you the truth is because your HOT! your boyfriend might think that another guy might get your attention.

[Lumn3]

Lol what a question to ask. you're as transparent as a bad book. =)

[igtacrushonu]

I'm also very blonde on the inside.

What iz tht suppose to mean =/

[Lumn3]

I get the feeling you really like being looked at and being paid attention. Not to be rude or anything. Can't say I blame you though... if I was hot I'd flaunt it too. =P

And, yeah, the guy needs reassurance. Relationships work better when you're on the same level. If you and your guy were getting equal amounts of attention from the opposite sex, it would probably not be a problem -- unless he's just greedy and wants attention from girls and wants you all to himself at the same time. Good luck!

[EmmyPooh]

I have the same problem with my ex. I just make sure he knows I don't like him anymore.

[igtacrushonu]

Lol

This iis my boyfriend I'm talking about.

I defiantly don't hate him.

I just hate that he gets so jealous.

He has me.

I want him, not anyone else.

=/

[EmmyPooh]

Ok well sorry! I just misunderstood you!!! Anyways, good luck with your situation!!!

[Avalace]

You are pretty and he is insecure? Something along those lines and the other 12 answers before me.

[Anonymous]

He's clearly insecure, you should talk to him about it, and try to make him feel confident about your relation-ship

[TheMArine]

okay all girls need to realize that the reason we do that is because WE DONT WANT TO LOSE THEM!

ahah acually I was asked that today

[BLP11520]

He is insecure about keeping you or how he measures up against other men

[Nifrayu]

It's an insecurity as I understand it.

[In_Trance]

Because he doesn't think he's good enough