Why does he want to know where I am always going?

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Sorry, posting another question lol. It's another guy, and this guy annoys me, cause there was this one guy I only went on a date with one time cause I didn't like him his name was Frankie. The other guy (Josh) always says something against Frankie even though he's friends with him, and Josh pranked my brother by putting cayenne pepper around his cigarette, and I was ready to tell a story about how my other friends dipped Frankie's Cigarette into the most hottest hot sauce in the world, and Josh cut me off midway and said "Yeah I don't want to hear about old news" Like wtf? lol. He just gets so jealous.

Then yesterday Josh kept asking me where you going? I wouldn't answer him, and he kept on asking. I would just give him a smile and say "Nowhere" he then was like "What do you go on craigslist hookups or something?" I was like "What the fuck? NOOO!" lmao, and he was silent. Like why does he get so jealous? He talks about the girls he slept with and mentions this one girl sometimes to me, so I don't get it. Haha. Like why does he want to know where I go and what I do? lol. Also he's not really flirty with me, he will do subtle flirting but not really out there, and when I was out with my girl Kay he called me at like 11:30 and was just talking to me and he kept asking who Kay was and I kept saying to him "She's my friend" and he kept referring to her as a guy, though, basically making it seem like I am lying and really out with a guy or something, but to me it's weird to act like that. He's not that nice to me either so I don't get it. lol. Any thoughts? Opinions? Please tell! Thank you! :)

[HandsomeRaj]

1. Why sorry, you can ask any number of questions on the same topic over and over again & we'll answer - GAG allows it too :D
2. It's not necessary that one has to be flirty to be attracted or attached to someone
3. Some guys (& gals) have the habit of asking people all the while as to where they are going or what they are doing
4. This guy doesn't have it as a habit but sure has something for you which makes him ask that. He's insecure that you are sleeping around with a lot of guys WHICH is his problem. It's insecurity & related possessiveness :)

My apologies my answers may sound quite crude but I tend to be to the point & upfront while my judgment seldom goes wrong (with exceptions ofcourse lol) :)

[BrunetteBabe1005]

No, you're fine! I see your point, and he's just really jealous, lol. Thanks, Raj! :)

[HandsomeRaj]

Glad you are receptive, understanding and accommodating young lady :) thank you for being so :) while it's always my pleasure answering your questions :)

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Awww, thanks! No Problem! :)

[martyfellow]

Some guys are super controlling..they seem to think they can tell girls what to do even if they're just friends...this is an example

[BrunetteBabe1005]

True that, my friend! It's just weird, but thanks! :)

[Anonymous]

He seems like a real creeper douche. Tell josh to buzz off. Guys who are jealous and possessive of a girl that's not theirs are more than likely annoying and crazy. I've been through this too and they won't stop being annoying until you actually do something about it. Sometimes if you tell them off or try to get rid if them they like think you like them and are playing hard to get or take it as a challenge. If you really want him off your back then keep your distance and let your friends know (guys/girls) he's weird. You never know he could do something crazy or be on drugs. Be straight up with him and let him know his place. He's a freak.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Lol, yeah, I know what you mean! I don't know what his deal is, all I know is that he just acts really jealous, and weird, about guys. But I get your point and I might do that, lol. Just a little too odd to me. Haha. Thank you for commenting! :)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. Good Luck.

[Lonesomecowboybill]

in my opinion somebody being that nosy/ clingy is a major annoyance, if I were you I would tell him to back off and get his nose outta your ass.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Hahahaha! Right? I know! He's just ridiculous. Thank you! :)

[Red_Dragon]

The cig prank though LOL!!! Let me ask you. Do you like guys who are...what's the word? "Bad guys"?

[BrunetteBabe1005]

No lol! I am not into bad boys, if anything Josh annoys me. I was ok with the cayenne pepper one cause my brother isn't allergic or anything, but the one where my other friends pranked Frankie and dipped his cig in the hottest hot sace int he world or whatever, I was against cause it was really strong and I knew that could do something but luckily Frank said it just burned I was more worried if his throat would close up or something, smh! But no bad guys suck, haha. Thanks for commenting anyways, but I am more on the subject of his jealousy, lol. :)

[Red_Dragon]

Oh well yeah he's jealous and overprotective. LOL!

[Red_Dragon]

Or I should say insecure like the other guy said.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Yeah I see a lot of insecurities, his reactions are strong and that usually does indicate a insecurity somewhere within that person cause of how the way they react. Yeah I just think he's jealous and insecure, but I was just bored and curious lol!! Thank you for commenting! :)

[Anonymous]

He is insecure which is normal. White girls cheat a lot for sex in nowadays and hence nice guys are always insecure. But i know he shouldn't be that possessive.

[Red_Dragon]

Oh word? White girls cheat on their BFs for sex?

[Opinion Owner]

NOT ALL OBVIOUSLY..but it happens all secretly if it happens. Especially if a girl is working at corporate sector or the place where she is often surrounded by guys..i bet she will do keep physical relationship with one. Don't worry most guys never discover that.

[BrunetteBabe1005]

White girls? lol! But yes that makes sense the rest of what you said, lol. Thank you!!! :)

[Opinion Owner]

To be precise.. White girls in majority. I am not denying that happening among other races and cultures.

[Red_Dragon]

They can cheat on they BFs with me. :D

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Awe! What the hell guys? Hahahaha! Red Dragon you're too much bro! lol!

[knotme]

sounds like a lot of drama

[HandsomeRaj]

Drama yes :) :D insecurity related drama lol

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Yeah it is drama with him. Lol. I am just curious about it, haha. Thanks!

[Metal189]

he thinks your his gf

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Oh god!!! Lol! I hope not, lol. But thank you! :)