Why does he keep asking where I’m at?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’m seeing has recently started asking me where I’m at and what I’m doing. At first it was just what am I doing but now he keeps asking me where I’m at. It’s every few hours it’s weird.

[SteveSmith1985]

That is clearly controlling and abusive behavior. It's wildly inappropriate.

You know red-flags? Well this is a huge one. A very clear one. Red flag.

This is when you back away from the guy who has just shown you he is clearly dangerous (for you). No decent guy would be checking up on you like that. But all manner and flavor-of-bad-guy would do exactly this. This behavior is inconsistent with a decent man. This behavior is 100% consistent with a controlling man, who becomes straight-up abusive over a fairly short period of time.

This is 100% a red flag.

This is 100% a red flag, 100% of the time.

No guy who you want anything to do with, would ever behave this way.

If you ignore this red-flag, you will regret it more than you can even fathom right now. This guy is bad news. Leave now. It's not going to get easier for you to do so. Leave now. Big fucking red-flag. Do not ignore it.