Why does he get jealous if he’s not my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Friend of mine claimed that I was flirting with other guys and giving them the “flirty eyes” at this party that we where at but he wasn’t joking or smiling when he said it
Another time, he found out I went to a bar/club and asked if went home with any guys
And just recently, he asked if I had fun at a party that I went to and when he found out I danced on some guy, he gave me a cold shoulder and started ignoring me

Why does he act jealous? But then not make a move...

[markscott]

He apparently likes you, but I don't know why he doesn't make a move. If you are interested in him, do some flirting, and if that doesn't work, do some serious flirting. Or just have a talk with him, which is more direct, but maybe not as much fun.

[Bad_Man55]

He wants you and likes you but his behavior as just a friend is indicative of a possessive overbearing guy. He is basically ruining any chance of getting with you by letting his crazy show now

[Cactusqueen]

Some people don’t want a person but don’t want others to have them either. Stupid? Yes! But true

[WilliamScotch]

Maybe he wants to be your boyfriend but at the same time he is a pussy and dont have the balls to make his move and at the same time dont accepth reality that you are having fun with other guys with crush his disney expectations... LOL

[jpalma]

True, been there done that. A few years back I got jealous of a girl I liked and then I told her what I felt a couple of months after

[WilliamScotch]

@jpalma yes.. we keep trying to fit the wrong girl on the right box; just like a baby fitting the toys, triangles on a square

[jpalma]

Lol, perfect analogy though

[Asker]

I would say yes if he asked me out tho lol I just don’t like that he acts jealous and acts this way if he hasn’t even made a move

[jpalma]

We guys by default are idiots hahaha
But now you know most likely he likes you, how about if you make the move?
If you would say yes that means you feel somewhat similar you can give it a try

[WilliamScotch]

@jpalma it will make her feel like a man and the guys like a girl, resulting in loss of interest from the girl part

[jpalma]

We all need to surpass our insecurities at some point, making the first move should no be seen as the man only, if you want something go for it and get asked out doesn't make someone less of a man

[Jlegacy]

It maybe because of fear of rejection. But don't make a move on him or he'd just sleep with you and blame you for it. If he doesn't ask you out, keep enjoying your life dear.

[Frankiealaplaaja]

Priceless: Possessive and jealous before it even begins.
Well you can tell what that would be like, can't you?
I don't mean to diss your friend or anything, but...

[redted]

He likes you. I'd ask if he has feelings