My boyfriend doesn’t get jealous at all?

[Anonymous]

I was talking with my boyfriend about jealousy and I noticed with time he got less and less jealous. Out of curiosity I’ve asked him why he doesn’t get jealous about some stuff and he told me it’s because he trust me 100% and he knows even if a guy hit on me , it’ll not lead to anything because he trust me way too much. Is it a good thing or does it show that he doesn’t care anymore? Should I be worried that the spark is gone or he doesn’t care anymore?

[btbc92]

Man, I can see why guys are that quick to break up with women. Listen, I understand the insecurities. But do LISTEN. You're not listening. He TOLD YOU why. Your making this more complicated than it needs to be. If you have trust issues, that's on YOU NOW. Not on him. He already told you that he trusts you. Without trust, there is no relationship. Unless you give him a reason to distrust you and break his trust by allowing other men to do so then you'll know when and if he leaves you for another girl who has morals. Jealousy is not healthy and it's dysfunctional. Only toxic people think it's positive. Natural jealousy is when you do and say things that hurt another be it if it's intentional on your part or not. Somebody who cares about you would not do anything to make you worry and would change their pattern or attitude when dealing with people if they don't already know your boundaries and have any at all. The problem is many people entertain others that lead others on, and gives their partners the wrong intent.

What is this "spark" you talk about? That sounds toxic and you need to find out what is your priorities and intentions for a relationship. He never said he doesn't care anymore. If he didn't care about you he would distance and pretend you never existed only to either move on or broke up without your knowledge. This man is very much present, but he refuses to have any toxicity in the relationship. If you like toxic, speak now, so he can find a more stable person. You determine if it is a good thing. I know it is and we need more mature people like him around. I know for a fact without knowing either of you, if he caught you cheating on him, he would be out. He won't bother fighting a guy over you when it is out of YOUR CHOICE to engage. So think about what kind of woman are you. Somebody faithful or somebody who seeks excitement and leaves when bored? Think about this. Because it will reflect your inner character.

[Newhead]

You are a very weird girl, you sound too insecure and immature for a relationship.

[NathanDavis]

Not showing jealousy is just trust, and not a sign that "he doesn't care anymore" you should not connect the two, it doesn't have to do with the "spark" either, You're just someone that can be trusted, and he's someone that can trust, that's all.

[spartan55]

Jealousy and caring never go together. Would you rather your boyfriend not trust you?

[kkirk4442]

I can't read his mind, but if he trusts you, that is a good thing.

[EmotionOfFear]

I... wish my girlfriend had a sense of jealousy. It's slowly developing the more we're dating. So I guess we have opposite issues.

[Luckycharms12]

I don't either wasted energy. If someone going to cheat there going cheat. No point worrying.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Some people just don't get jealous. They're secure with themselves.. pretty cool, isn't it?

[jahaims]

Jealousy has nothing to do with amount you care

[alice55]

Seem like he's not that into you anymore.

[spartan55]

Because he isn't a jealous moron? Come on.