Wearing the clothes I gave him to work?

[Anonymous]

I gave some of my old clothes to a male coworker who’s a similar size. We have work clothes but whenever he comes in with a jacket or a hat on it’s almost always the ones I gave him. Is this a sign of interest?

[Anonymous]

No. Men don’t usually attach feelings to things the way women tend to do. For instance if a man is wearing a watch his ex gave him, it usually doesn’t mean he misses her or is reminiscing about her. More than likely it’s a useful item. Maybe he likes it. Not so much that it has sentimental value attached to it. Maybe the dude you gave clothes to didn’t have much of a selection of work clothes to begin w. Maybe they’re types of clothing that he never thought he would wear but realized he like how they look, feel, etc. He may have gotten tired of wearing the same work clothes.

[bowenw]

I would look for other signs before concluding he is interested as he may simply not have many clothes to wear to work.

[Asker]

He’s shown a lot of other signs. And he definitely has other jackets and hats that he used to wear. But now he pretty much only wears what I’ve given him.

[bowenw]

In that case, it sounds like he's interested.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Whyhim]

Food works in rotations, they might need to wait to find a food match and see where it fits. Give it time. Gifts are just that. Let it go and move on. It’s not about you.

[princeofromance]

Yes, you most definitely should make a move.