My boyfriend has an attitude after he finishes using the bathroom?

[Anonymous]

This morning, we were fine. We ate breakfast and then went to pick up mail. We played a few games and then I had to work for a few hours on my phone, so he resorted to watching YouTube. We talked a little bit here and there. He had no attitude while talking to me.

Then, he just suddenly got up to go use the bathroom (he normally tells me he's gonna use the bathroom). He's in there for around 45 minutes. He comes back to the living room and I asked if he was ok. He immediately has an attitude in his tone of voice when he responded to me. (We ask each other this, so it's nothing new and it was the first time I asked him today.)

So I go back to working and he's watching YouTube again. Usually he would show me videos and point things out, but the whole time, he was silent. I looked over to him and it just felt like something was bothering him.

Sooo I asked him if everything was ok and if he needed anything. His response... "Oh no. Here we go again." I simply told him I just wanted to make sure he was ok because we weren't talking and it was silent the whole time (low audio from his YouTube videos though).. I didn't ask or said anything rudely... He just pushes me away and everything he says has an attitude in his tone. The kind where you're annoyed with something. But he denies that he's annoyed or has an attitude.

It confuses me and makes me feel sad.

[Anonymous]

So you’re sure you said or did nothing wrong? Nothing in the tone of your voice? A lot of people like to say things like this when they’re part of the problem. Maybe he was beating off in the restroom, got mad that you suspected something. Maybe he’s just getting tired of being w you.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm sure. I was concerned about him because he was taking a while in the bathroom. I asked him one simple question with concern.
If he's tired of being with me, he could just leave and find someone he wants to be an asshole to over a simple question. I didn't question if he was beating it off in the bathroom. I didn't assume anything about him. All I asked was if he was ok and he got an attitude, so maybe he was cheating and felt guilty then because he was absolutely fine prior to the bathroom usage.

[Opinion Owner]

Well after reading your response to the other person who responded something tells me you’re not so innocent. You basically agreed w some stranger that he’s a weirdo. Then calling him an asshole. Yes I don’t actually believe what you’re saying. I think in somewhat you’d defend him, especially to a stranger who knows nothing about him. But you’re pretty much taking the side of strangers, tells me how much you care about him. So I’m thinking you’re every part of this as well.

[jahaims]

Sounds like he is sexually frustrated and was upset that he had to beat off instead of fucking

[Anonymous]

You are dating a weirdo!

[Asker]

Girllll, tell me about it.
I just don't know where all this attitude is coming from. Never seen or experienced a guy behaving this way at all.