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Should I leave a man behind who only makes last minute dates?

I have been making a fool out of myself for having so much patience for a man in his mid 30s who I feel lacks common sense and courtesy. He is no stranger. We have talked everyday for two months. He initiates it. We went out twice, and he knows I am busy because I am a single mother. He is a single dad too but only part time. I made it clear that although I am busy, I will happily make time for him because I like him. Hinting, "Plan a solid date, and I will happily make arrangements for a sitter and make myself available."

One time, I told him I would love to get together again. He asked me to come over. I said I would like to meet up one more time because I wasn't comfortable with coming over yet. Obviously, when a man asks you to come over, there's going to be intimacy involved. I just wanted to make sure that he liked me for me because I didn't want to be a hookup. This conversation was at 9 and he says "ok! Well let's meet up tonight!" He knows very well I have a child, and I am not a fan of last minute plans. I could deal with the morning of. I was very irritated but calmly said, "Sorry but that's way last minute. I need way more of a notice." Hoping he would never do that again and would have more common sense.

He does it AGAIN. 8:30 pm asking me to go out.. no I can't. I had all this built up frustration and finally told him that I am baffled that a man in his mid 30s lacks common sense and that the dating world nowadays is a joke (oops yeah i know I shouldn't have said that.. shouldn't have said anything) he didn't reply which i get.

I'm going to get, "He's just trying to get in your panties." But this guy doesn't go ghost like the others. We would talk every hour every day.

Should I leave a man behind who only makes last minute dates?
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