Do guys like their girlfriend when their girlfriend is absolutely submissive or when they are very challenging?

[Priya99999]

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That varies from man to man. I generally think that guy's that insist on total submission are #1 insecure and #2 more likely to be dangerous. A relationship works better with some give and take. If one person always submits to the other, that's owners, not partnership.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I follow my man, but I'm not going to do it blindly. I'll let him know if I don't agree with something. I don't think that counts as "challenging", we're just working together and try to move forward as fast as possible. Make every argument you make count, make it actually worth something for the both of you and I don't think he minds.

[HungTexan]

It definitely depends on the man, and the situation. There are times when having a sexually submissive partner can be a huge turn-on for both, but in normal everyday life everyone enjoys a challenge at times. A little of both is fun.

[MannMitAntworten]

I am not a fan of either extreme. As I think about it I don’t care for either at all. Submissive just seems like a roll being played, and a challenge … Who wants to deal with any level of a pain in the ass? Not me.

[slatyb]

Challenging in what way? I want a woman who takes charge of her own life but is open sexually. Submissive is good too.

[Miristheiss]

I like peace at home. I like femininity. I don't like argumentative and disagreeableness.

[glennos89]

Definitely submissive, I try to avoid the challenging ones

[Ariesman81]

I get the need to test a man's strength, but dealing with a disagreeable woman is a nightmare and will almost always end the relationship.

[krin_m]

Combination! Fist challenging and then totally submisive!

[jahaims]

Very challenging just means annoying and immature