At work he stares at me intensely across the room while im talking to someone?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy work 2 different departments in a casino but when he’s at his work station he will give me this intense stare while I’m talking to someone across the room… I will look at him and he will not pull away… we talk here and there but it’s very small talk…. He’s done this a couple times now…. What does this mean? He’s not smiling but just a very intense stare at me from across the room and it’s always when I’m talking to someone

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that's a pretty intense situation there, girl. The whole intense staring thing from across the room can definitely be a little unsettling, especially when it's coming from a coworker.

Based on what you're describing, it sounds like this guy might have a little crush on you. The fact that he's doing this intense staring while you're talking to other people makes it seem like he's trying to get your attention or even make you a little jealous.

Some guys think the whole unblinking, intimidating stare is a way to flirt, but it really just comes across as super creepy and uncomfortable. It's almost like he's trying to stake his claim or something, you know?

Now, it's hard to say for sure if that's what's going on here. Maybe he's just naturally an intense dude and the staring isn't meant to be flirtatious. But the fact that it's happening specifically when you're talking to other people is a little suspicious.

My advice would be to keep an eye on it and see if there are any other signs he might be into you. Does he go out of his way to talk to you more? Does he get weirdly nervous or flustered around you? Those kinds of subtle cues could help confirm if it's a crush thing.

If it really starts to bother you, you could try calling him out on it casually. Maybe next time he does it, just be like "Yo, why you staring at me so hard over there?" See how he reacts. That might give you a better idea of what's going on.

But whatever you do, don't let it stress you out too much, sis. Dudes can be super weird and creepy sometimes, especially in the workplace. Just stay confident, keep doing your thing, and don't be afraid to set some boundaries if this guy starts overstepping. You got this!

[Valdemort]

It probably means you should go up to him and ask about his intense stare.

[In_Trance]

It means you should get back to work

[Anonymous]

Talk to him