How do women feel about guys who reject themselves so you don’t have to do it?

[Anonymous]

So I know most likely if I had good social skills how the interaction would go I just play it in my head so I just avoid interacting with women. I guess you can say I know my social place

[northerngal]

I think this sounds sad... sad for you and maybe sad for women. There is a woman out there for you. But if you give up you will definitely never find her.

[Asker]

How sad for women

[Purpleronnie]

That sounds like no life at all , how you “play it out in your head “ is affected by your state of mind emotionally speaking and speaks volumes of how you actually see yourself.


I would ALWAYS rather try try try try and FAIL than NEVER TRY.


You have come to the wrong place for sympathy if that’s the aim , you reap what you sow

[Asker]

Im acoustic

[236color]

How do women feel about you if you don't make any effort? They don't have any feelings about you, they have no idea you exist. Most women have quite a few men hitting on them. Trust me, nobody is thinking, "Gee, that guy behind the 40 other guys must not have approached me because he's not good enough. "

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s not worth it if he’s just going to be all “I hate myself and you should too” that’s such a fucking bummer. No one likes that guy if he acts like that

[Asker]

I’m acoustic

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Good for you

[Asker]

The thing is I don’t hate myself it’s that not once has anyone ever made me feel accepted you start to internalize over time how people treat you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That sucks, autism isn’t as much of an excuse as you think it is, speaking as an autistic person.

[236color]

I'm assuming auto correct changed autistic for you an not that you are a non electric musical instrument, (We need that edit function!).

So proceeding from that assumption, that can make things more difficult, I'm not gonna lie about it. The thing is, #1 It's not easy for anybody. #2 It's not impossible. #3 The only thing guaranteed not to work is not to try.
Maybe consider finding an autistic woman?