Do women like rejecting men?

[Anonymous]

[FreyaRed]

Men, stop approaching women who don't give any signs of interest. It doesn't work that way. If I want to talk with a guy, he will know he will be welcome if he approaches me. Otherwise it's just annoying and make absolutely no fun.

[pass_the_celery98]

Not all women or girls do that some literally act shy or bitchy to play off like she doesn’t like him.

[ChiTown33]

Key word "You". Problem is every woman is not YOU. There is a significant segment of women who flirt with guys simply because they like attention, they like to flirt, and the have zero interest in that guy. And that guy has little way of telling the difference. So the lead on is very real. And yes I know there are a lot of guys who mis-read signs so that is a factor as well. But let's be real it's not as cut and dried as you purport it to be.

[FreyaRed]

@ChiTown33 Girls play with guys sometimes, I won't deny it. However with a little bit experience and observations skill I'm sure it's easily recognizable if it's just an attention game. Funny are guys who approach a 'wolf-pack' of tipsy girls and think it's real. XD

[ChiTown33]

I'll try to remember that next time you complain about a guy on here who led you on. That with a "little bit of experience and observation" it would have been avoidable.🤣
I see the point you're making but this isn't as easy or cut and dried as you want it to be.

[imsooolost]

so... I thought I got several signs of interest and I approached just to say hi and it seemed well received but all of a sudden (I don't know what happened, whether she thinks I ignored her or what) but it started seeming like she got all shy all of a sudden and I get the feeling that she either wanted me to say more and I didn't so she started ignoring me? OR she just showed interest to feel validated? I'm not telling the whole story so I'm sure it's hard for anyone to tell what's really going on but this whole thing just leaves me confused and I'm starting to think I should just ghost

[ChiTown33]

@imsooolost I got a personal rule with women. I give the same energy they give me. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet. Why would you want to be with one that doesn't reciprocate equally. The way I see it if she is shy maybe constantly losing out on guys will encourage her to get over her shyness. And if she's just playing you. Well she just learned where your line was.

[virtualwasp]

no, not at all. its sad to hurt someones feelings but you have to do it sometimes.

[Anonymous]

I think you need to change the wording of this question. Because men just see this differently then men is all.

The best way I can explain it is men do not have feelings to a woman, ok. Or more accurately her feelings will ALWAYS be Paramount to man's (the exception being when she's in a relationship with that man. Because at that point his feeling are an extention of hers).

Ergo, Women will always see flirting as fair game with a man. It how she feels attractive, it's playful, it's how she gets her kicks. How it affects him isn't relevant to her. Now if the role is reversed that's not OK to a woman. A woman's feeling ALWAYS have to be handled with care to her.😆

This is just the way women think man. And not amount of complaining will change that. So no it's not malicious. They're ambivalent about it. Yes there are a segment of women that are toxic do do this maliciously but they're just toxic women, not the norm.

So my advice to you is take everything a woman says to you with a grain of salt. And chase everything that skeeter might do to you with a shot of penicillin.😆 You be a lot happier.

[jennifer_bloom]

No I had 4 guys try to punish me after I rejected them for being horrible people. One guy gossiped about me for over 5 years. Another guy for over 10 years. Another hacked my email account and impersonated me to over 500 people on my friends list so that I have to use a fake name on social media sites like Facebook now and can't add people who were on my friends list 19 years ago cause he will look at their profiles to locate me. I had another guy send people to spam call my house every day cause he is angry I said he was unattractive - it's been happening for over a month now. I gave him my home phone number 18 years ago when we used to be friends and I blocked his cell phone number around 10 years ago but the evil and malicious guy decided to keep my home phone number knowing I wanted nothing to do with him just in case he wanted to talk to me one day.

[love_conquers_lust]

Imma make an assumption and be a bit racist here. Is this an Asian male thing? I offended an Asian subreddit community, Aznidentity, about stereotypes since they were throwing around stereotypes like crazy, trolling the trolls. Next thing I know I’m being bombarded and attacked. They banned and told me to FOAD, then I got a message from Reddit administrators telling me not to commit suicide and gave me a hotline number. I was like, what the fuck kind of passive aggressive behavior is this? It’s a damn message board.

[jennifer_bloom]

@love_conquers_lust some of them were Asian most were white

[love_conquers_lust]

Caucasian white? East Asians are often referred to as white adjacent.

[miafryer2004]

Well without even watching the video I can tell you she’s a big fat liar. Her video thumbnail alone is thirst trapping. Cleavage on show, the perfect smile, tilting of the head. She’s trying to attract men to watch her video not reject them. Putting a photo of herself looking like that on a thumbnail for a video about rejecting men is counterintuitive.

[Billlewis]

I think you may have a point there. By the way, I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if it's alright.

[Sabretooth]

You can attract more flies with honey than vinegar. A beautiful girl can hold a lot of ugliness.

[TacosRAwesome]

Maybe that's her point... she enjoys looking approachable etc to reject men.

[Sabretooth]

@TacosRAwesome if so... she's very stupid... too stupid to notice her own cuts.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a anti-girl person but I believe there are enough girls who like (or even love) rejecting boys. I've seen enough videos on social media (mostly tiktok) where girls get interviewed and get asked stuff about relationships, how much a guy should give, cheating, leading guys on, rejecting them etc. It's shocking what some replies from the girls are on these questions. Especially about cheating and leading guys on to reject them for their own ego. But I'm also sure there are enough girls who hate to rejecct guys or think its so awkward to rhave to reject them.

[ManOnFire]

I don't necessarily think women like rejecting men, they just like talking about how they have rejected men they weren't into. You gotta remember that women enjoy bragging about being pursued even if it's attention they don't like or want. They just want everybody to know that there are men who want them, that they don't want.

[lumos]

I don't... most of the time it's pretty awkward and uncomfortable, and I feel bad about potentially making him sad. But worst case scenario is that he'll get angry and lash out, which could be dangerous. Or that he won't take no for an answer and start trying to pressure or manipulate me. There's nothing fun about that, and I'd rather be left alone.

[WillaRose]

I think it depends on the woman. Some absolutely enjoy attention and control. It ultimately stems from insecurity and the need for validation that they’re desirable. That being said, I think the majority of women aren’t like that and find it very uncomfortable. From a personal standpoint, I’ve always found it gut-wrenching to reject a guy who has taken the time to get to know me and seems genuinely interested in me as a person. However, if a man makes it obvious that he just wants sex, it’s easy to shut it down. I don’t like feeling objectified.

[chrissykerdock]

1/2 the time they approach you because they're looking for a blowjob... it's not like men are always sincere and they really want to take you out... to be honest i don't really get a lot of hits by men... just saying it's not that bad and i don't reject them because i like hurting people... because i definitely don't like hurting men.

[Quigly]

It's a power trip

Women want to make relationships all about money while they want men to make it all about love.

It has to be this way, if men actually viewed it as an investment. That's when it all falls apart. Cause women have made themselves a very bad investment for a guy. Women have a long history of being a bad investment for a guy.

This is the moment a guy walks away from relationships and becomes a happy single guy with a bank account.

[Jess_D]

I’ve never gotten any sort of joy from rejecting men. It sucks but if you’re not into someone what else can you do? It makes me feel sad, unless they react with mean words or actions. Which has happed to me before.

[sheikalana]

I cannot say I enjoyed rejecting people when I was single. The men I rejected had absolutely no chance with me so there's nothing to regret about.

[Billlewis]

They rarely admit it, but I'm absolutely certain that many of them do, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. It's actually kind of hot, to be honest.

[Wallythewalrus]

Just out of curiosity, how many times have you been rejected?

[Billlewis]

@Wallythewalrus In terms of trying to have a sexual relationship with her, I'd say at least thirty or forty times, maybe more. However, when she rejects me for sex, I often ask her if she'd consider letting me serve her as a non sexual sugar daddy, pay pig, etc.

[Anonymous]

It's a power trip for them when they do ego boost when they act like they're better then the guys they reject. But in all fairness once they're asses are sitting on that toilet seat taking a shit then they're no better then anyone else and they're shit stinks just like everyone elses

[Yunakim]

It just depends weather the men approaching is someone we like , obviously we can't accept the one we don't like

[Anonymous]

Only approach women on a level you have delt with before. When you first start out look for choosing signals to know what caliber of girl is usually into you. This will give you the confidence women say is so attractive. Because you know you have dealt with a female on her level before.

[WhitneySnow]

Some do if they’re very insecure and need the validation

[boggboss]

I'm sure some women enjoy it wouldn't say its the norm

[Billlewis]

I think that although a lot of women probably enjoy it, I'm sure that many of them are uncomfortable rejecting a guy, because I see so many questions about how to tell a guy they're not interested in him without being too harsh, etc.

[boggboss]

Its why I said I dont think it's the norm I willing to bet more women just find it awkward then not

[SolitarySolace]

Pretty sure they do, it probably makes them feel like they have all the power. Just don’t chase women. Problem solved.

[worldscolide]

im sure there are some that do, its an ego boost.. But i am willing to bet that the vast majority do not.

[DiegoO]

Why would they like it? If you feel rejected by F, you're not alone. Most of us guys, get rejected, until we hit the right nail.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about chicks today, but it pains me.

[Chthou95]

For sure. They love knowing that a random man wants them but they also love rejecting men they don't want in a brutal way because its ego driven

[LiamJHayden]

Some might, but who cares what a few do? There are 4 billion women out there

[DextroShade]

Her sentiment will change once she hits the wall and faces the prospect of dying alone.

[hammeronfire]

Narcissistic ones do, yes. Normal people don’t get any sort of rush from it

[Nikki1989]

No, I hate it.

[Anonymous]

Bitches do. Why would you want a bitch?

[Pohjolan]

Cockteasers do.

[ChefPapiChulo]

I love breaking hearts tbh.

[MaxUsefull]

For some yes