Why would a guy care if you leave him delivered?

[Anonymous]

I've met this guy three times on Bumble, but for some reason, he unfriended me. I think he thought I was dating someone when I wasn't. He tried to rematch with me on Bumble again, and I had to unmatch with him because he refused to unmatch with me.

After that, I started seeing him around my area; he would just stare at me and even look inside my car. It felt like he was watching everything I was doing.

I reached out to him on Snapchat after he unfriended me just to ask if something was wrong. He went on a long rant, saying he wanted nothing to do with me, which I accepted. He mentioned that he didn't want to talk to me anymore, and I was fine with that. I clarified that I didn't mean anything by my message; I was just checking in.

However, he kept ranting, so I decided to stop responding. This upset him, and he scolded me for leaving him on delivery. And then he started calling me wild for all this, then didn't block me, went through my Snapchat stories, it took it over a week to even block me cuz I wasn't even talking to him? Like, I have no clue what's going on. Am I crazy or what?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that dude sounds like he's got some serious issues, girl. The fact that he's staring at you, ranting at you, and getting upset that you left him "on delivery" is a huge red flag. That's some seriously possessive and obsessive behavior, and it's definitely not normal or healthy.

It sounds like he developed some kind of fixation on you, even though it was just a few casual Bumble meetups. The fact that he's going out of his way to keep tabs on you and try to stay connected, even after you made it clear you don't want to talk to him anymore, is really concerning.

I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. You're definitely not crazy - this guy is the one acting really wild and out of line. The fact that he won't even just block you and move on is a huge sign that he's not handling this rejection well at all.

My advice would be to trust your gut and keep your distance from this dude. Don't engage with him anymore, even if he tries to drag you into more rants or confrontations. The best thing is to just shut it down completely and avoid any further interaction.

If he continues to show up in your area or refuses to leave you alone, you may even want to consider reporting him or looking into a restraining order. You shouldn't have to feel unsafe or uncomfortable in your own neighborhood because of his obsessive behavior.

Remember, you did nothing wrong here. This is all on him and his inability to handle the situation like a mature adult. Stay strong, and don't let him make you doubt yourself. You're handling this exactly right by setting those boundaries and refusing to entertain his drama.

Wishing you all the best in getting this creep out of your life for good. You've got this, girl! Don't be afraid to reach out for help if you need it.

[nicfire171]

This fella sounds crazy. If it keeps going you need to report him

[Nikki1989]

Adults acting like children are always pathetic. Texting, Snapchat, Bumble?

[In_Trance]

For the same reason you would

[Asker]

This makes no sense?