How do I know if my boyfriend likes sleeping on the phone, but he’s already asleep?

[Anonymous]

current situation- my boyfriend fell asleep on the phone. i don’t want to be rude and hang up, but i don’t know if he likes falling asleep on the phone is it comfortable with it. he keeps making small mumbles and it’s kinda cutw. i don’t know what to do and i need help 😭

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1 y

cute not cutw sorry

[Effably]

I have had more than one long distance arrangement where this was wanted by my partner. Feelings of together, safety, comfort, so on. After all, being able to sleep next to someone is a show of trust too.

That said... just ask him? Feel free to say he makes cute sounds or something too. End of the day we can only theorize.

Pal of mine read our finance course literarute to his girlfriend. Cured her insomnia. Pretty sure that was boredom knocking her out. But I've also had a girlfriend myself who, during a very trying time and with me liking to read anyway, just asked if I'd read aloud. I see no real issue?

[Asker]

thank you so much. he actually makes really cute sounds while he sleeps too 😭

[Cormac995]

This is actually more common than you would think. Hearing your SO's voice when you're tired is very relaxing and lulls you into a pretty deep sleep if you're comfortable and cozy. It's actually kind of romantic when you do that for someone in my opinion. Some people like falling asleep to the sound of rain or white noise, why would listing to the voice of someone you love be any different?

[Asker]

thank you so much this helped a lot!! :)

[vickiezalez]

Do you have a soothing voice? I took my ex boyfriend once to a clinic with me hoping he'd help me remember everything the doctor told me. Fat chance! The nurse put us in a room and started asking me standard health question in a very soft soothing relaxing voice. My ex was out within 3 min... He slept throughout my medical visit so he was no help 🤣

[Asker]

he says i have a soothing voice and he said it helped him fall asleep

[Anonymous]

We'll phone calls are boring. Texting is even worse. I would be asleep too.