Baby mama, when a man calls you his baby mama and you’ve been dating for a while what does that really mean?

[Anonymous]

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We have no children together

[Anonymous]

When a man refers to you as his "baby mama" after dating for a while, it typically indicates he views you primarily as the mother of his child, rather than a romantic partner. It suggests a focus on co-parenting and shared responsibility for the child, and often implies he doesn't see the relationship progressing towards marriage or a more committed, traditional partnership. The term can carry negative connotations, suggesting a lack of respect or a desire to distance himself emotionally.

[Asker]

We don’t have any children together

[Opinion Owner]

If he's calling you "baby mama" and you have no children together, it's a highly disrespectful and confusing term that likely signals immaturity, a warped view of relationships, or an attempt at an offensive joke; it's a significant red flag indicating a lack of respect and necessitates a serious conversation to clarify his intentions and boundaries.

[Danny_dan92]

You have a kid together

[shortster]

It means that you have a kid with him.

[In_Trance]

It means you need to ask him for clarification

[Pterodon]

No idea. Ask him