Why does it seem so hard to meet someone it feels like other men hit on them to much they assume thats why im doing to but im not?

[Schwoobie]

[Nikki1989]

Many women experience a high volume of unwanted or inappropriate attention.
This can lead us to put on a defensive stance.

[Schwoobie]

It really sucks and make it hard for guys like myself that are nervous to go up to a girl just so you don't make them feel that way

[Abbycado]

Meet someone to date or friends or?

[Schwoobie]

Meeting as friends then seeing if turns into something they just assume I'm only trying to sleep with them

[Abbycado]

Try meeting in a group. Go out in a group and meet with groups of girls. Trust me, it works with my group of roommates/friends.

We met a group of guys from the adjacent hall and we all became friends. Still are.