Question for guys. What does a guy really look for in a gir? What goes through your mind when you develop a crush?

[Anonymous]

Question for guys.

What does a guy really look for in a gir? What goes through your mind when you develop a crush or fall in love with someone? I'd love to hear your thoughts. Also, what traits do you find most attractive in a person, and how do you feel about long-term relationships? Feel free to share your perspective!

[DrPepper12]

It's the 5-7 seconds of SEEING her, the 2-3 seconds of her perfume / scent & hearing her voice and the first 5-10 minutes of talking with her. It's all intoxicating!

[StevenMcGarrett]

She looks pretty and she dresses well. A giving personality is a good sign.

[Hellraiser1984]

I look for someone sweet and kind and smart and funny. I find artsy girls so much fun because they are so focused on money. They enjoy working with their hands no their purses. I find a girl who sews and does crochet so cute. If they are into cosplay that's a huge plus. I won't be afraid to hide my anime collection. Someone who is tolerant of my hobbies. Likes staying home as much as going out. Down to earth and is good with money. Not a rich snob. I wouldn't date a rich girl for anything. I look for a girl who has an education. Id be proud to date a teacher or nurse over some slutty only fans girl. If she does that stuff I'm gone. Im not into polygamy either. I'm not religious but I'm not sharing my girlfriend/wife with anyone especially on the Internet. Someone who likes to read is very desirable to me. So many girls that work at my half price books I have a crush on. I love listening to their conversations as I shop. I'm to afraid to ask one out. there's a really cute girl at my bank too. I would love a long term relationship but it's just that we both must accept we have flaws and try to learn to accept them or correct them. There is no one without flaws. Plus I'm not the macho toxic masculinity type and that can either be a turn on or turn off to women. I'm not a wuss but I'm not the wham bam thank you ma'am type. I hate macho guys because to me they are so fake and are obviously just looking for sex. Well the white ones I know all dress the same too. Baseball caps, sportswear gold necklace drive a sports car usually have at least one kid from an ex, in and out of jail, talk like a gangsta rapper and only listen to rap music. And have zero respect for women and refer to you as bitches, females, property and hos. Oh and they have substance abuse issues. Anyway, I love artsy crafty girls, even if they are religious I'm fine with that unless they are really pushy with it. I probably know more about their religion than they do. But yes I prefer the cute nice sweet artsy good girls over a filthy ho with a ghetto booty anyday.

[Staximus]

Usually it's when I know a girl cares about me, then I start getting feelings for her. There has to be more than just sexual attraction

[Anonymous]

I have only had one crush that really has stood out to me and lasted. It happened while I wasn't pay full attention to my emotional side. All I want is a life long relationship.

[chrissykerdock]

they're looking for a girl who will do that

[slatyb]

Someone I can talk to about anything.