All of a sudden tho?

[KayPeezy]

So I normally come over to my boyfriend's and I rarely call before I'm coming which has never been a problem what's tonight on the phone I say okay well I'm going to call you if I decide to come or not but instead I just pop up I just come like I always do and he gets mad at me and flashes on me as to why I come without calling because that's what I said I was going to do and I'm just trying to catch him up on some stinky s*** that wasn't even a thought in my brain can I please get info insight from a guy I'm still why the hell this just happened?

[Anonymous]

Well this time you actually said you’d call as opposed to all the other times. Plus if it’s at night, not knowing you are coming cause you’d said you’d call if you were. To have someone knock on the door or just walk in at night, he was caught off guard. Maybe he was getting ready to turn in for the night, or go somewhere. Maybe he was planing on seeing some other girl.

[Staximus]

Why would a guy be mad if his girlfriend came over unannounced? Either he's trying to hide something, or he had a crazy ex with trust issues that used to check up on him all the time to make sure he's not trying to hide something. If it never bothered him before, then that is kind of shady

[Nikki1989]

Most men are flaky at the best of times.

[spartan55]

Not sure why you don't give him a heads up you are enroute. Send a quick text
This is all basic etiquette and respect consideration stuff. yOu are the one not communicating, and then you try to turn it back on him... he should be pissed

[spartan55]

# He should be pissed at you. Stop playing victim and making it all about you.

[molonski2]

I tend to think that he really didn't ever like " just turn up " and I can understand that.