I feel safe in his energy?

[Anonymous]

I know this guy in work we've had disagreements but somehow he only shows kindness and he has been venerable with me

I just feel safe in his energy I don't really understand but there is underline of calmness

is this a good thing to feel around someone?
and has anyone else experienced it?

[slatyb]

Yes, that's good. Is he single? Are you thinking of a deeper relationship? Invite him to coffee or lunch or dinner.

[Asker]

I'm not sure he has kids

He's noticed my tattoos before

But I'm just grateful he makes me feel so safe for some reason it's like we have this friendship

[Nikki1989]

That just suggests that his energy is reassuring and non-threatening. That can be a rare thing.

[Asker]

I've shared stuff

Even when we had a disagreement he said sorry I've never had someone say sorry to me before first

I'm just not used to it