Why do older men always look at me and my peers don't?

Question

My peers also look at me, but the ones who are older than me look at me the most. Today, during the university exam, the teacher (55) kept looking at me, why?

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

That's an interesting question... I'm not sure I've seen that before.

Usually the old guy who forgets how old he is, would end up checking out the exact same girls, that gets checked out by guys her own age.

I'm totally guessing wildly here (and only to make this fit within my own understanding of things) I could definitely be wrong.

Is it possible that your peers are actually checking you out more than you think? Is it possible that you're noticing the old guys checking you out, whereas you're just not seeing your peers are checking you out? Maybe the old guys aren't as subtle in checking you out.

I don't have any other explanation. I am curious as to what's going on with this too.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Because old men look deeper when they look at you they are looking at you in detail. Everyone is beautiful. I can't speak about all men except for me I look it to your eyes first because I want to feel your heart

In that moment I listen to hear your voice your tone you're body language from the your clothes that you wearing to see your shape of your body and then back to your eyes ant that kinda paints a picture if you to feel your energy. And that tells me more about you older guys know what there looking for

Jennz6 · Accepted Answer

Older men come in the Nightclub where I work and try to pick me up for a date after I get off work

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

because you looked at him. it's what people do. it doesn't mean anythinggggggggg.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Older guys are mature and not intimidated. Should they be? younger guys are or not confident enough.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I can tell if you’re really cute or not as the phone is blocking your face. It could be that you have a big rack, so they may be looking at that. I think too older men are just different as far as how they grew up. Approaching women, being more confident, not all but a lot more then what I see today in a lot of these men. But too that isn’t just a lack of confidence in men these days. A lot of men don’t want to be accused of something so they don’t approach. Plus a a lot of women have told men we don’t need you so they’re just avoiding women all together.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Several possible reasons. First being you kept looking over at him and he himself is wondering why you kept looking at him. Something about your appearance in that moment made him keep looking over. He was actually looking past you and it just appeared as if he was looking at you. He just fixated in your direction like watching your pen or whatever move as you wrote and not directly upon your person. If my wonders off I know I have done the same which has zero to do with the individual. I even known others who have down the same. Just a few possible reasons.

As for why your contemporaries do not look at you … it has been drilled into boys who are now the men to essentially not approach, look towards, speak with, or otherwise engage with unless given permission by women first or else have their lives ruined. Essentially, younger men were raised with an element of fear of women. Older men were not raised with this fear.

Angelo75 · Answer

There is also a chance that you look too stunning so it might even scare younger men off. You might look as that girl a guys dream which looks as he'd never stand a chance to get her. So he doesn't even try.

Older men are more self-confident.

NathanDavis · Answer

the teacher has to check on you so you don't copy on your exams... your mates should not be looking at you, they should not be copying... lol

Shiprex · Answer

Maybe the older men are trying to read you as younger women aren't so tousled by life and have an innocence about them and since you were in an exam it's part of their job to check you're sticking to the rules of no conferring.

OneViewpoint · Answer

The professor probably caught you looking around and thought you were cheating on the exam. Keep your eyes on your own exam.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Guys your age are probably just trying to avoid making you uncomfortable

soe11 · Answer

May be they admired. Look sexier. Look attractive.  Look stunning.  Look gorgeou.  Be a positive person.

14gurlz2gagonit · Answer

Probably because you're more of a catch for them.

Finchie40 · Answer

Probably because they find you attractive, a lot of older men like younger girls’ just how it is

LiamJHayden · Answer

Younger guys, your peers, for the most part seem to be socially inept, at least around here. Older guys are far more likely to be willing to approach.

QuestionObsession · Answer

You probably give off the vibes of an attention whore

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Your looking for worship on GAG aren't you?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

You may be very beautiful and attractive, so both young and old will look at you

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Well for one you don't look your age and secondly you have this very mature way about you. Was you alway like that or is that something that just happened to you recently

Anonymous · Answer

The teacher probably thinks you're cheating during the exam, it's his job to check on every student from time to time.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

You're likely hot, so we older lads want your body !!!

zombiewoof · Answer

Older men appreciate youth, when young it is taken for granted,

MatureMan40 · Answer

It is obviously since you are beautiful and attractive.

ThebestIndian · Answer

They find you hot or cute?  or they have a doubt of you cheating.

Grond21 · Answer

Perhaps you intimidate the younger ones

alice55 · Answer

Maybe you don't follow trends?

oldpigg · Answer

Because nobody likes old women.

WonderingManII · Answer

He likes what He sees. You are beautiful.

Wise4myage · Answer

He’s attracted to you!

Jackguyy · Answer

Older men love young women

blackeagle007 · Answer

I won’t comment on this

Dongie · Answer

Your smokin' hot.

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