How would you feel about your boyfriend going to a strip club? Is it a dealbreaker?

[princess]

[Spencer10]

OK I will go against the flow here. I do not think its a big deal. Guys like hanging out with their friends and like attractive women. A strip club allows him to do both. I would have no problem with a girlfriend going to see male dancers. Its about trust and confidence. If you love someone set them free right? Now if he is going all the time or getting VIP dances their may be issues. As they say I would not mind where my girlfriend gets her appetite as long as she eats at home. lol

[serious]

I am sure that would be a dealbreaker for any woman who has a boyfriend.

[MemeSupreme]

yeah that's not cool lol

unless it's work related like selling beer to them or security

[red-lipstick-girl]

Breaking up with my boyfriend is something I will never accept.

[SteveSmith1985]

I... was just scrolling these comments, and this one smacked me in the forehead. That is a scarily unhealthy sentence. I am genuinely wondering (hoping) that this is a typo, or autocorrect situation?

[red-lipstick-girl]

@SteveSmith1985 I am just now seeing what is written because I am using a translator. My English is not very good. What I mean is this is an unacceptable and wrong behavior.

[SteveSmith1985]

Excellent! I thought it must be something like that. I didn't think you were someone with scarily unhealthy views. I actually thought that you might have meant... exactly what you did mean. 🙂

[ManOnFire]

@red-lipstick-girl Long time no see.

[NicholasRedone]

@red-lipstick-girl the wedding vows are the vows 💍💒

[worldscolide]

I'm one of those people who got taken to a strip club as a bachelor party. I felt gross. I was miserable, and I missed my wife.

After I told her about it. She was not angry with me thank God, cause I had no idea it was going to happen, and I was fucking miserable, I felt dirty.

That having been said, if i could go back in time, I'd have refused to go. And I refuse to go anywhere like that now. Not because it's forbidden, it's because I'd rather have my wife.

Hopefully that makes sense.

[Danny_dan92]

Any man that says women who aren’t fond of this are honestly ignorant and biased.




I had a buddy that I had an argument with because he revealed how one sided his logic was by him going to strip clubs.




I asked him if he would like his girl going to a strip club and have the male stripers rub their bodies and balls all over his girl. He got defensive and said fuck no.




So I then said, “so wtf do you think your girl thinks when the idea of another woman rubbing her naked body on you? Use your brain”

[JohnnyB123321]

I’ve never dated a girl that’s had a problem with them. But honestly I don’t love going to them. Spend a bunch of money to see some naked girls. It’s not that I don’t like naked girls, but the internet is stocked with thousands of naked girls you can look at for free. And honestly. a lot of strippers are not even attractive to me. A lap-dance from a girl you are not attracted to at all just does nothing. But, I’ve never been told I couldn’t go. My long time ex would go to strip clubs. She would laugh as. one of the girls is rubbing her boobs in my face and rubbing her butthole on my leg.

[NicholasRedone]

There's a Family Guy scene of Back to the Future II where Marty and Doc share an awkward convo about interracial marriage in the future and Marty's like, perfectly acted and drawn, he's like "well what's, what's wrong with that" and doc's like "what, uh what... really?" - lol so likewise I'm like about the strip club "what's wrong with your legal adult boyfriend going to a legal adult stripclub in town?" Shrug

[ManOnFire]

If I was a woman I would not be okay with that at all.

[NicholasRedone]

@ManOnFire excellent use of edit features there to highlight the I

[ManOnFire]

@NicholasRedone Oh I do that lots, dude lol

[WhitneySnow]

That would really upset me unless maybe if he was going with a group of guys. Less likely to be any sex with other guys around. And even then only once in a great while.

[MrChinaski]

Genuine question. What effect does it have on your life if your guy is looking at other tits and asses?

[MrChinaski]

They have security to stop him doing more. That would really upset you?

[WhitneySnow]

@bddddd yeah it would. Not so much that he’s looking at other girls as that he’s doing more than that.

[MrChinaski]

Fair and honest call.

[DishLady]

Well… it depends WHY he is going.


He likes the food? Hmm… bye bye Byrdie


It’s a bachelor party, ok, one-time free pass.

[ManOnFire]

You'd give him a one-time pass?

[DishLady]

Meh… a bachelor party? What else would the guys do? Knitting?

[ManOnFire]

Dudes have been known to cheat at those parties.

[DishLady]

I’ll put it another way. I’d rather the guy go to a strip club (watch only) then to be at a private house with strippers.

[Anonymous]

No not a deal breaker. My problem would be if he was wasting money on women like that. If he wants i will dance for him while he stuffs dollar bills into my g string, and yes there will be sex in the champagne room.

[Dargil]

In my view, the interactive aspect if a strip club must be limited placing the bill in the garter, no other touching, to be acceptable. Its just live action porn.

[Cormac995]

yea if you're dating that's crossing a line. Porn is one thing strip clubs are a bridge too far.

[KrisPW]

I’m okay with it, he’s coming home to me though! Even went with them a few times.

[Ironic_Method]

A partner dragged me to a strip club once and... it was very underwhelming. The person I was with was more attractive than anyone on stage and maybe I'm just not into pole dances.

[elizamichale1]

Well mine goes there everyday coz he runs it

[new-person]

I would hope it's a deal breaker. Why dose he need the strip club when he has her.

[genericname85]

that's fine. it's a strip club, not a brothel. i don't mind looking. but touching is forbidden in my relationships.

[MrChinaski]

To see the same tits and asses he can see online in 3 seconds? It sounds like a waste of his money, but there is no moral baggage.

[Alex-Snow]

Guys can look but certainly not touch. I would have no issues if a girlfriend went to a guys strip club as long as she just watched.

[Anonymous]

@nicholasredone

https://www.youtube.com/embed/t0J2MS5kJ2M

[Luopio27]

Strippers dont touch!
But no, I wouldn't go in there if I was taken nor would I like her to be one!

[beams]

If he just went, I think it's okay, I'll go too.

[BobbyLee789]

It's like him going there to see a scantily clad woman where he gets an erection looking at her, that crosses the line I think

[Kelly6]

@princess depends on club, and depends on what he does there.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I don't know, but since I'm straight, I've never had a boyfriend !!!

[blackeagle007]

I’m ok if my girlfriend goes to a strip lib where other girls dance

[shortster]

A boyfriend would be a deal breaker for me. Though a strip club visiter wouldn't.

[robocop666]

who says he is buying a dance? maybe his friends are?

[jimmy2]

Strip clubs and those who go to them are childless behavior

[Anonymous]

I don't go to strip clubs haven't been to one since i was 31 years old

[itsannalee]

That would not be my concern

[Abbycado]

Nope, not okay.

[Nikki1989]

It is borderline cheating.

[MrChinaski]

Cheating involves penetratation, This is just visual sports.

[notadumblonde]

Borderline is being generous

[comedy]

In such a case I would definitely leave

[DrPepper12]

This guy won't go. Waste of time & money.

[Anonymous]

I'm going, my girlfriend doesn't mind lol

[OldBlu]

A smart woman would go with him.

[Pterodon]

Depends. Did he ask if it was ok?

[PaleDale]

Yeah, that crosses the line

[LauraJ00]

Not cool

[Anonymous]

Instantly dumping his ass

[Eempriyanka]

No..