What would cause a guy from being interested to all the sudden ignoring my messages?

[Anonymous]

For background, I've known this guy for a little while, we hung out a couple times and he was super respectful. Like he didn't try anything of the sort but like there was something in his smile that I swear made it seem like he was interested because it seemed so genuine and maybe it was a ploy but end of the day he had kissed my hand. like he was super interested seemingly, I mean cancelled plans to see me and such. He said I was funny and he was happy to be around me and excited and like now I don't know what to think.

Anyways, we hugged, kissed, cuddled, and eventually had sex, but everything was going fine, then oh I don't know Friday night, he like didn't respond to me for hours and eventually left me on opened. Saturday we had one conversation, and Sunday I just sent him a happy Easter and he responded at midnight and after that we snapped a little bit on Monday until I was left on opened again. Going on Wednesday now and he keeps opening my snaps and not responding and I don't know if I did something wrong or if he's seeing another chick or what because he did used to have good communication and now it's shit. 😪

Like he also said he doesn't talk to multiple people at once and or talk to multiple woman. He also said he gets attached really easy so I don't know maybe I'm just dumb but I just want a straightforward like if someone has done this what would be the reason? Especially not communicating with the other party? And why ignore someone to still keep them on everything if that "interest" isn't there? I'm sorry for my naivety.

[In_Trance]

You've obviously said or done something to turn him off. Or maybe you just didn't give him the right signs

[Asker]

I have no idea what though, like when we hung out last we had hugged and I know he squeezed tighter because I had a looser grip but like i reciprocated after that. And or we were were joking around just fine. Would be be mad that I saved photos of him? Like in your opinion what would a girl have to do in order for you to switch up? And is it worth even tryjng to reach out because he is ignoring me but like watching what I post, which probably doesn't mean much and I just don't know why I'm so worked up over it🥲

[In_Trance]

Whether it's worth it or not depends on your sense of value.
If you feel that strongly about it try reaching out one more time and see what happens.
If you don't get anything from him at that point I'd suggest you move on

[Asker]

Umm I sent him a snap , with nothing and he did respond but once again back on opened. But you think even just asking because you think he'd even realize he's being a dick? Or is it deliberate

[In_Trance]

Either way I think you've tried hard enough with nothing in return

[Asker]

Mm I wish he would give a, response but dang it just sucks giving up on something you knoe?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been ghosted by my friend and multiple partners in the past, men today are mostly jerks

[Asker]

It's such an immature thing to do and they really are jerks anymore, I'm sorry that that has happened

[Opinion Owner]

thanks , im sorry that happened to you

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho