So this guy seemed to be trying to get my attention. I only know him in passing, but he stares and stares, even after I look back at him. He gives me lots of strong eye contact, staring directly into my eyes and not looking away. He said hello a few times and we even had a brief, but awkward chat. So I decided to give him my number, I figured why not and he smiled and seemed pleased.
So he messaged me 2 hours later and after a few messages he then said he wasn’t looking to date etc as he’d just broken up with someone a few days before, which is fair enough.
Thing is I guess he’s just being nice, I’ve had my share of flaky people, being ghosted and breadcrumbed, but it just seems odd to even bother messaging if you’re not interested? I guess he was just being nice letting me know, or maybe he was sounding me out for a possible hook-up? But I’ve just got out of a LTR and trying to get my head around what dating’s like now and trying to be figure out what’s the norm.
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