Would you get jealous about this?

[Anonymous]

If a girl you were interested in was always doing something with friends or family, would you get jealous?

[RavVid]

I would expect to get an adequate slice of her time. I don't think jealousy so much as what is the point of her.

[Asker]

He seems interested in me at least. The way he looks at me, the way he hugs me, the way he lights up when he sees me, the way he tries to lowkey impress me by how he’s doing better work wise and with school seem a little promising to me. But I don't know, he could just be a nice guy. Sometimes he’ll ask me what I’m doing but hasn’t asked me out. He does see that I spend a lot of time with family and friends but I don’t want him to think that that means that I don’t have time for him. He just hasn’t asked me. Do you think he’s interested and just shy or not interested?

[RavVid]

He seems to be interested to me. If you are interested in him be encouraging by showing your interest.

A while back even if a girl wasn't interested & declined, she would still thank you for asking her out.

Now you are likely to be called creepy and find yourself in a TikTok. So a lot of guys aren't asking out now.

[Asker]

I think I have. I have a little thing going with him. I eat these treats that come with a toy and I give him the toys. I’m not sure if he still does it, but at first he was putting them on his car console. He’s just different with me. He hugs me differently than he hugs others. I’m the only one he tells stay safe/take care to after he hugs. He asks me a lot of personal questions and stares. I’ve caught him staring and looking me up and down multiple times. Once, I was sitting with a friend at a table and he walked backwards as he didn’t take his eyes off of me all the way to his locker. Another time he blew off schoolwork to hang out with my friends and I instead. I wonder why he’s so afraid to make a move.

[RavVid]

You are indeed giving encouragement :) Can't answer why he is so hesitant to make a move then.

Would you be willing to ask him out?

[spartan55]

Jealous? Lol no, I just wouldn't waste my time.

[LiaRaven]

Nope